How Do You Handle a Jealous Girlfriend?

[Political_dude]

So let’s say that you have met this really great girl. You like being with her, you have a lot of fun together, everything appears to be going well. Then she sees you talking to another girl and whammo! The green-eyed monster rears its head. Congratulations, dude, you have a jealous girlfriend.

What do you do if you have a wonderful girl but her jealousy causes all sorts of problems? You can’t go out with your friends because she is jealous that you will meet someone else. You can’t have any friends who are women nor can you talk to a woman because your girlfriend is jealous. You don’t want to lose this great girlfriend but you don’t know how much more you can take. How do you handle a jealous girlfriend?

[Lovemycountryboy]

I could defiantly understand why she would be jealous especially with other females I would to... but if she really does love u she should be able to trust u as with her and she and u need to communicate to... If she wants to tag her alone.. If u are with other females and males or just females yes she does have the right to be jealous and yes she is right... You by no means do not need to be alone or hanging out with other females it not right unless u hAve males with u then go for it...
But at the same time she does need to trust u and u don't need to cheat either just like her to she does not need to cheat and u need to trust her
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Just talk to her calmly and she needs to talk to u calmly.. Female friends with a male and she thinks u going to meet someone else I totally understand. .. But she needs u to let u hang out with your male friends

[CubsterShura]

My ex boyfriend was like that. He fucking for furious because a guy friend of mine tagged me in a post writing "You're a tomboy tbh" he was like WHY THE HELL IS ANOTHER BOY TAGGING YOU and then he tagged me with another girl in a post which said "Tag the most beautiful girl that you know."

He wasn't supposed to be jealous but he did. I was supposed to be suspicious but I didn't. I seriously need to stop expecting that people will be as loyal with me as I am with them.

[strangytie]

I couldn’t. To have someone control my friendships like that... it’s too much. It’s a precursor to emotional or physical abuse in most cases. I don’t get jealousy, never felt it. I’ve only ever felt worried or insecure. And I could never deal with a jealous person ever again.

[babygirl646_2012]

I don’t get jealous like that... like mad or angry. I simply walk away and let him have his fun. I’m not his mom to control his behavior and he should know what’s right or wrong.

[jokery56]

if she is as jealous as you describe then she isn't as great as you may want her to be. when dealing with a jealous significant other, its important to remove them from the pedestal that is greatness and bring your opinion of them down to earth. you need to ask her why she is so jealous and also reevaluate the "expectations of your relationship". if she is understanding or cares about you then she will leave some wiggle room. also you should consider the possibility that she still won't let you hang out with girls. find out the problem, reassure her and gain her full trust.

[hellionthesagereborn]

Very simple, you sit her down and explain things to her. You are with her and that's it, if she cannot bring herself to trust you now she never will so either she learn to control her jealousy or you two cannot be together. And that's it, that's all you can do, either you explain that your not going to live your life a prisoner because she is either self conscious or unable to trust you, or you allow her to control your life until you have had enough and decide to leave her because the behavior, if left unchallenged is not going to change.

[JimRSmith]

I just honestly wouldn't ever be with somebody like that.

I've had mates who were, and that kind of shit can change the course of your life, and rarely for the better.

Don't stand for it.

[Paktura]

Well, I have a policy. If smeone forces me to chose between them and someone else, by doing this knowingly, they say "my happynes is more important than yours". In that case I explain this point, and if they don't get it / care, I say goodby.

[JimmyPage]

I'm not sure maybe you should show her she has nothing to worry about by making lots of love x) like if she sees you taking to a girl, whisper in her ear something and then go home and "reassure" her xD

[findingdreamland-1]

Well it is her character. There is nothing you can do. You have to accept her as she is. It is very difficult lf you ask me.

[BadAnswers]

Just Tell her that your not looking for anybody else , she's all you need/want

[Clarke498]

If she won't trust me, i won't trust her, and i'll break up.

[The_Gentelman]

If she is that jeaoulos than she can't be that great

[yourfutureboyfriend]

I think its kinda cute

[Political_dude]

Jealousy is cute? You're going to stay single forever

[yourfutureboyfriend]

When a girl is jealous it means she care

[J4Zzi3]

maybe you don't give her enough love?

[Blueeyes81]

I don't. She'd be gone.

[LegateLanius]

Serious discussion and possible break up

[FatmanChris]

Break up, done

[CT_CD]

Cheat

[Anonymous]

I dump her.