Me and my ex split up because he couldn't handle how jealous I was, after we split up I took the break-up really badly. I was beyond upset, couldn't sleep or eat. He was my first boyfriend so I had no previous experience of how to act, I constantly spoke to him still and never ever left him alone. He hooked up with another girl a week after we split up, but still told me he loved me and missed me, and he said we could probably get back together in a few months time. But he kept seeing this other girl, and me and her ended up being enemies. She'd rub it in my face about how she "stole my boyfriend", would call me ugly, say that she was an upgrade from me, get her friends to take the p*ss out of me etc. In the end, 6 months after we split up, my ex fully cut contact with me and stayed with the other girl. He blocked me off his Facebook, he moved far away because he was going to university so I never saw him in person either, and he stopped texting me back. The last thing he said to me was "don't contact me" so, I didn't contact him. Two whole years passed, he stayed with the other girl for a year and a half, and just BEFORE he ended it with her he'd unblocked me on Facebook, he didn't add me as a friend or message me, he just unblocked me so he could see my profile, and obviously have a nose through my photos and what not to see what my life is like now. A few months later he saw my best friend at a night club (I wasn't out) and he was asking her how I am, and told her to tell me he wants things to be "cool" between us again. After this he added me as a friend. We spoke for ages, he called me nicknames he used to call me when we were going out and flirted with me (this is over Facebook mail) and he suggested we should meet up "soon" so I said yeah sure. Then he said "I think we have some unfinished business to catch up on ;)" so I knew he was talking about sex. I upfront asked him if he was trying to use me for sex and he said he DEFINITELY isn't, and I said what will happen with us? What are your intentions? And he said he doesn't know. What is he playing at? Why would he use me after how PSYCHO I was when we split up, wouldn't any normal guy be too scared to use an ex who full on stalked him for half a year after they broke up the first time round? I know guys think so differently to girls, so I don't know what to think of it all. I'd like all of your opinions? Please help me! :(
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