Girls, tomorrow I turn 37, still a virgin, never been in a relationship, why bother trying to pursue women?

My mom wants me to find a woman and get married within a year or two. This whole nonsense of "work on yourself" is a joke. I graduated with an Honours in political science, I got into grad school, I got my own place in the city, I cook great food, I look youthful for my age, I'm decent looking, I'm in good shape, I have a sense of style, I know when to listen and be caring but also provide a deep understanding on matters whether it's life, economics, law, politics, religion, etc. I don't care if a girl only has a college education and works as an administrative assistant. But I have had a loveless life through parents, I had to fend for myself, fight for myself so I am not some mamma's boy. I always thought commit acts of chivalry, be a nice guy but assertive, whatever it takes nothing works man. I am not some annoying, condescending guy. I try to be mindful of others and try to remain positive. Girls have told me you seem like a smart guy, who's handsome or cute.

- i bought roses once for a girl who said she likes me, only to reject the flowers and say she's with another guy
- girls saying im not good enough
- girls ghosting me
- i skipped prom that was actually on my birthday, asked a girl out in high school who said no, her ex boyfriend from another school wanted to kick my ass for asking his ex girlfriend to prom (nothing happened because he was a wimp), the two schools out of the whole region was my high school and her ex boyfriend's high school... What are the odds. The next day she said, why didn't you come to prom I would have danced with you
- I've had girls on social media and dating apps ask me to send them dick pics or have a one night stand or do a 3-way (2 guys and her)

This is the stupid garbage I had to deal with, I guess Im destined to fail, to always be a virgin, I accomplished a lot in my life individually. If I'm 40 and above one day, I don't care which woman approaches me, at that point ill tell them no thanks since they always rejected me.
Girls, tomorrow I turn 37, still a virgin, never been in a relationship, why bother trying to pursue women?
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