I'm 29 and always looked younger for my age which I always was really insecure about because guys were always saying: wow! I thought you were 14!!! I guess that's the reason why guys in my 20's weren't interested in dating me. I'm almost 30 and now I get hit on by guys in their early/mid 20's but they are too young for me now. Guys my age aren't interested I quess because i'm almost 30 :( I read all about men not attracted to woman of 30 and not want to date them and I'm getting so depressed reading all about this. I see my friends having children and I am still single and a virgin i'm so ashamed and sad. Are there woman here who found love after 30? Are there men (30's) here who date their own age?
Rather than have guys base interest on appearance, let them see you in action. Get involved with an organization and take on a responsible role. Show them your maturity by your actions rather than have them just guess based on your looks. Volunteer, and focus on group objectives rather than personal objectives. People can only judge you on what you are willing to share with them. Show them a different side of you, and someone will rise out of the crowd.
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Dont get too hung up on age and virginity. i didn't pose ine till 35, I'm now engaged and have 2 kids. It's not too late for you.
But don't put too much pressure on finding the perfect relationship. It dosen't exist. Guys in their mid 20's may actually be able to help you get some experience with relationships without getting too heavy. I wouldn't rule it out completely.
“I read all about men not attracted to woman of 30 and not want to date them”
Completely untrue. This is a fabrication by the loud, single, bitterman group. Ignore their small population.
Have you ever thought about accepting a date with those younger men? Who says they are too young? They obviously like you and don’t think you are old. Give them a chance.
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Yes I think it's bs to say that guys don't date women of their age hence many guys online talk a lot of crap they don't live after themselves in the real life. It may take some time to find the right guy but it's not impossible.
Well, I'd advise being a bit more flexible about the age of the guys you date. You're still young, though, and you will have guys interested in you. Guys usually want to date women younger than them, but there are plenty of exceptions to that.
I can actually kinda relate to this because I looked like I was 12 until like 22. Looking young is a blessing and a curse, so I'd say get out there and use it to your advantage now!!✌️
Just go for it, kiddo.
You're not going to be arrested for liking a younger guy,
You will meet someone, don't worry about virginity and I'm sure guys aged 30 + will date you.
Yeah definitely. I'm a single guy in my early 30s and I hope I can find someone lol.
I’m 26, and I would prefer someone around 24-34ish, that age range will probably creep up as I get older
It is nice you saved yourself for this long
I’m wondering what makes guys in their 20s be too young for you?
I am looking for a woman like you, follow me back so we can message
It's alright. You'll get over it. 🤣🤣🤣
I dated a virgin 30 girl...
And i dated herGet out an start mingling!
I'm not bothered
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