I’m a 21 year old virgin who’s never been in a relationship, is this unusual? girls, what are your thoughts on dating a 21 year old virgin?

[Anonymous]

[_Maya_]

Is it unusual? Not really. Is it a problem? No. We were all virgins once. It doesn't much matter to me if the dude is or not. I was at one point. As I tell other people that ask similar questions about this is that I would just want to know beforehand. First times are supposed to be special so I would wanna make it special. I have no problem dating someone that is a virgin. If they decide I am the one they lose it to then great. If not that is okay too.

[exitseven]

Dont get so hung up on age. Everyone is different with different life experiences. Just be yourself and don't make a big deal about it/. I did not have a real girlfriend until i was 19. she had already had a boyfriend. i never even told her.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[inhua]

statistically no but you will face a lot of virgin shaming and societal pressure to get that monkey off your back

[Chthou95]

Its very normal. a lot of young men are in your situation. If you were a girl asking this, that would be raising questions

[Anonymous]

No one can know whether you are virgin or not, so just act according to situation's demad

[In_Trance]

What are you waiting for?

[Asker]

I guess I just never really clicked with any girls, I have pretty bad social anxiety and have met mostly guy friends in my life. I’m not really in situations to meet girls

[Anonymous]

Think it's becoming more common

[Drumlin2001]

You're fine.