Girls, What are some things that guys think women care about, but really don't?

[Anonymous]

At least for the most part?

[jennifer_bloom]

I don’t care if he has a luxury vehicle, I only care that it’s safe and clean and able to fit all the people we need and I also don’t care if he takes me to a normal restaurant and not an expensive one, I don’t even need a meal, we could cook some oatmeal or porridge with honey when I visit. And I see no difference between a guy who makes $80,000 a year and a guy who makes $8,000,000,000 a year cause my goals and dreams are always low key and modest, I also don’t care if he he has a pet, I like cats and dogs and birds, but it does not add to my interest in the man. And I do not need him to spend 4 hours cleaning before I visit because a decently clean home is all I require. I had a best friend for 18 years and they did not spend a single penny on us until around 10 years of friendship and when they finally invited us to parties at their home it was potluck so they did not actually buy us anything, while other family members spent $10,000 on me every year and I viewed them as enemies and strangers. You can’t buy a woman that’s not attracted to you and you can’t buy commitment.

[Pandupillu11]

The luxuries, the fancy vehicles. Yes we do want a guy who earns descently but we don't drool when you drive a fancy car wishing you could give us a ride, yes we will notice if you own a fancy car, but that will not steal our hearts, neither do we get attracted to guys who put on fancy perfumes, a good smelling guy is pleasant to be around but that's about it, it doesn't make us go crazy. Also a guy trying to show how masculine he is in comparison to other men is a huge turn off. We do want you to be in good shape, but we aren't crazy about six packs and aren't going to sleep with you just cause you have a good body. A guy looking to pick fights with other men just to prove his worth is a turn off as well.

[WhereIsMyMind]

Acting tough. I've noticed with a lot of men that they think they need to follow the whole stereotype of not showing emotion and 'acting like a man'. Complete BS. I have way more respect for men who are willing to show their emotional side, I just feel like those that don't come across as a bit immature because they're believing some silly sexist crap. I also feel like I can build more of an intimate connection with someone if they act like an actual human being.

[Spikey_uwu]

I don't care how macho u are, put on the damn maid outfit

[Sara573]

Material things. What cat you drive, how much $ you make. Arrogance. Trying to prove you are "macho" or alpha. Opening doors for me ALL the time. Just be yourself, be a nice human, give me forehead kisses and we're good!

[Pretty808A]

Howany people they know, who they know or how popular they are for example. I care about how you treat the ones you don't know. And how close you are to the ones you call best friends.

[Sour-rose]

their cars.

[ARismyname]

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