On The Inverse: What Are Things Men Think Women Care About But They Actually Don't?Author's Opinion: ✍️ "I'll start us off, B👀b size. From the many questions I've asked about that topic it's become clear guys might have a preference but ultimately they don't really care as long as they get to enjoy them. On the inverse question, men think women care about "🍆" size but we really don't." Please Explain Your Answer... 💭
What Are Things Women Think Men Care About But They Actually Don't?
Most men at least on the west don’t care about your career or education. And it’s not because we don’t think you should have them or want them, it’s because we aren’t expecting you to provide for us. Most men want to provide for you, and changing such a fundamental relationship dynamic between men and women that has existed for tens of thousands of years is going to short circuit a lot of the kind of men who are actually going to stick around and be a husband and father.
Now that enough time has gone by with more women earning degrees than men, while still expecting to be able to live a life of hypergamy, it is causing a lot of tension and friction that hasn’t existed for most of human history. Thanks feminism.
Men generally don’t care about boob size, we just want to show them some love. As for labia size shape position color etc. most men don’t care they’re just happy to get in there. As long as hygiene is on point, most men are going to be willing to overlook pretty much anything else.
A man who doesn’t like it if a woman can fight is worried about having to fight her, and probably not the person you want in your life. I’d respect and appreciate a woman who could be the back up fighting for the Homestead.
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This was such an insightful answer! I didn't even think of that! I've noticed when guys try to get to know me they never ask about my career, education, etc. I really enjoyed reading this post. You rock 🎸
Women think we care about what you wear everyday/fashion. We don't.
Women think we care about your specific layers or makeup or how you apply it. We don't. Either wear none at all, or just don't look like a clown.
Women think we care about what job you have and how much money you make only because THEY care so much about a man's job and how much money he makes. We do not care at all.
Women think we care about her height only because women really, REALLY care about our height. Like 95% of men don't care about a woman's height. Only two times it comes up is when really tall men want really short women (both associate tall with masculinity and short with femininity), or if a taller woman is involved, because taller women than us almost always reject us to the point the 99% chance of rejection with her isn't worth it.
And lastly, women DEFINITELY care about dick size. As someone with one under seven inches (so, small), the statement they don't is completely full of sh*t. Women also shame men based on their dick size, and the few honest ones will always admit they want at least 7 inches (the ideal size), but not more than 8.5, cause it hurts their cervix. So that one is completely full of sh*t. And for me, yes, I do care about boob size, but I wouldn't reject a girl just for being a C cup or smaller, as men aren't as shallow as women.
A woman weight. They don’t care about a few pounds up or down, not as much as some woman think. Your butt will always look good to him. And if he says otherwise he’s one of those that needs time alone to mature.
I think women care about size but they are at a disadvantage in choosing. Men can see tits a mile away.. women don’t see the dick until it’s in their hand. With that said… boob size is a non issue for me.. have more than me and I’m happy. I can’t speak for everyone but I don’t care about a lot. Be smart, be clean, smell good, be sweet, be supportive, be just as freaky as me, be mine and we are good. Job, car, money, and all that other stuff can change at the blink of an eye so I can’t focus on that.
The tragedy of plastic surgery and injections gone wrong is the thing I don't understand about women. Men don't care that much that you are 'perfect'. The lip injections never end up looking right as women age. When implants are obvious the look kinda gross. Ladies and gentlemen, please, just workout and eat right for you health and go with what you've got. For men, d*ck size, bank account size, and again perfect body. I think the perfect body on either side cuts out a lot of the possibilities. Because those people are intimidated and either say no or never approach at all.
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LOVE this comment! I really enjoyed reading your take on this question. I have considered getting a boob job, but injections, etc but never went through with it. It's just hard when you see how beautiful the Kardashians are just because they had the money and resources to correct every flaw. It's so hard to meet beauty standards and what's funny is that guys truly don't even care but women still feel like we have to do this stuff to be able to compete with other women
How about a perspective from an old fart who has been around since Moses was a pup! My god, PLEASE stop being concerned about external things! Look, male or female it DOES NOT matter. Respect yourself. Eat right, get plenty of exercise and take care of your obligations. Do this and the external will take care of itself. Gravity WILL do a number on a person you can NOT escape this. A lady will have sagging breasts as she ages. Most folks suffer from middle-age spread. Most folks' hair thins out as they age. Right now as I write this I am watching a lady that is 49 make our breakfast! If I had to choose between her or some 20-something tart I would take this lady every day of the week and 3 times on Sunday! She takes care of what she has! This is what I think about, and to be 100% honest that other stuff is all fluff.
For me the number 1 thing I don't care about AT ALL is gossips! I don't care who slept with whom, in what position they did it, who cheated on whom, who broke up with whom and so on boring crap! Their personal life is their business, not mine, not to mention such topics don't interest me AT ALL!
The only time I had to resort to gossipping was when I saw this picture (see below) of my goddess for the first time. I thought the photographer was drunk when they took the picture but other fans told me this big left pupil was the handywork of her (now ex) insect* husband Blake Jenner, so I did some Google search on the matter. I wanted to know who hurt her.
*Men who raise a hand against a woman do not deserve to be called "men", they're insects! The only thing they deserve is their hands to be broken!
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Oh we most definitely care about boob size! The thing is some dudes like 'em big, some like 'em small, some like 'em medium, etc. So there's a dude for every type. It's true some dudes don't care that much, but most guys I suspect have a pretty strong preference.
In terms of things we DON'T care about, I'd say her eyebrows, her nails, her shoes, her jewelry, really any of her fashion choices for that matter with the possible exception of her lingerie.
So you can safely ignore all those things. Just not your boobs! ;)
The only thing is trying to become perfect. I have seen a lot of being insecure about themselves. But the fact is even if you try to change yourself for other people some people are still not gonna find you good. And some people will be happy with whatever you're offering. Just find someone who likes you for who you are and not for what they want.
I completely agree with your thoughts. I think both guys and women that aren't as endowed as they like, thy push that insecurity on to its the opposite sex, that its their fault I am inadequate.
Then there are some that just like to hear about what the other sex thinks, like they get off on it.
In my opinion, some girls or women might care if guys worry whether she is hairy down there or not hairy my very first girlfriend ( ex) made faces If I wanted to go down on her she was hairy but I was well satisfied.
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Sooooo true! That's why I ask so many bald pussy questions! I feel like it's deal-breaker if the downstairs hair isn't perfectly trimmed, moisturized, and pretty to look at. I think my parents raised me to have superficial ideals of beauty.
@crossdressingrihno so true! I didn't realize it until I start asking questions about my boobs and the majority of feedback was that I shouldn't worry because it's not something guys think is a deal breaker in a relationship
Size of tits, look of vagina, size of your eye lashes, your makeup, being extremely hygienic (not all but most of us dont need very high hygiene, just keep it clean), your height, and your weight unless it becomes very high or deadly low. On the inverse question, penis size, how much emojis we use (in my experience)
women should be skinny lol honestly maybe more men prefer women who are slightly fat but not fat, and should have big boobs that's actually iswe don't care, we care more about your character than your breasts and women don't really need to go to the gym to build body , a better you improve your character
good look and make up , smooth and nice skin ( eg without acne ) , nice vagina , nice hair , pretty face honestly if you are not ugly there are still many men who like you
Their accomplishments. Men don't give a f**k about women being "boss" bitch or how much money they make or that they can support themselves on their own.
I am really sick of women obsessing over boob size and height. The latter is especially getting old. Just because it’s a big deal for you when it comes to dating guys it isn’t a big deal to us vice versa.
Her education, status, and material possessions. A lot of insecure women try to compensate by bragging about their accomplishments as if that's supposed to make them more attractive. I might be in the minority here, but I definitely care about a woman's appearance and boob/butt size. I do notice the little things and not so little things and appreciate it when she puts in the effort to doll herself up.
We usually don’t care what your job is as long as you have one, and don’t care how many degrees you have but women usually care if men do
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Great post! I didn't realize that guys didn't really care about our careers or education. I feel like a lot of my choices in life were to make sure I had an impressive background before becoming a wife. Which means serving in the military, getting my degree in Japanese, and now working on my degree in history. I honestly believed growing up that no man would want me if I didn't have an education, if I didn't play an instrument, and if I didn't look like a complete barbie. I learned to play the piano, did gymnastics, and cheerleading. So it's hilarious that guys don't really care about those things.
Excellent feedback. Very insightful and fit the question perfectly
Don’t take it personally but guys will like you either way and sometimes it’s intimidating to a guy if she is over accomplished, I know when going through dating profiles I just want to see similar interest’s in things
Women spend a fortune on getting their hair done, and the guy tells her "oh that looks nice" but, I have news for you ladies. Most of the time, we thought it looked ok before, and didn't notice any difference.
Makeup and cosmetics. You may think society places a value on this, but here's a secret. If you have the assets, the rest doesn't matter. Obviously keep good hygiene and all that, but caking yourself in makeup doesn't help as much as women think they do, as far as thinking it'll enchant men.
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