Most men in (General) don't care and wouldn't. Men dont ask you how much you're making and then get hard or turned on depending on the amount you say. Most men aren't going to want you to date you or marry because of your career and financial status. a lot of women think that men are attracted to the same things they are. Men and women are not the same
I have noticed the same thing. Modern women tend to value themselves based on the same things they value men for, which of course is pointless. Men want different things from a woman than women want from a man.
I have also noticed women often think men are "intimidated" if they have a great career. It's not intimidating at all, but it can be unattractive to a man if he perceives a woman's priorities are not right.
It's just a fact that ambitious, career driven women don't make great mothers and wives, and that is unattractive to most men. Ultimately, what attracts men to women are the traits and behaviors that make them good mothers and wives, and a high power career is not consistent with those things. Nothing to do with intimidation and everything to do with what men actually care about and find attractive in women.
I think at the core, it just speaks to how little women in general actually understand men.. I mean really it's not that hard, many just don't care to understand us.. I have noticed it and asked the same question.. Of course out of support and curiosity I do ask what they do and am generally interested.. Some men do care but those are the elite men.. I'm guessing..
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They have worked hard for that degree or career or position etc etc So they automatically think that somehow that is attractive to a man when all men really want is peace and cooperation.
It's not totally unreasonable to assume... their income could help make things at home more comfortable. The problem is that women know what they find attractive, so they're kind of assuming that we would see a similar value in those traits.
I honestly don’t think most (educated) women actually DO believe that! We’re not deluded. I have a trust fund so this doesn’t really apply to me, as i was born financially independent. But I'm in college to become a clinical psychologist. My serious classmates, appreciate the financial freedom and independence that a six figure income gives us. For example, we would NEVER be “stuck” in an abusive relationship, because we have the financial means to escape from an abusive partner! That alone is a major motivating factor for many women to learn a career that will allow her to never be trapped. Do you actually have any actual data that suggests women BELIEVE that a six-figure career is something that men appreciate, admire, or even care about? I would be curious who commissioned this data be researched. As far as everything I have read, is that while men may say anything to curry favor w/ women, their main focus is beauty, youth and a very low body count! Am I wrong?
I find that a lot of women have been conditioned to find value in doing what men do. It's why most modern women have become so masculine, because they see themselves as in competition with men, rather than truly equals that bring their own set of strengths to the table so to speak. Mostly it just means they haven't discovered what makes them great as women. This is so common sadly, but its a testament to how undervalued women are. I blame feminism.
I’d like to say I don’t but I to an extent I do, if you’re working as a part-time waitress you live with your parents and have no interest in another career or even more hours and you’re my age? My jobs going well but I can’t 100% keep someone more or less so it’s kinda a necessity that they at least have a full time job if we ever plan on living together.
If you were better working than being the primary carer then why does gender matter.. Im going to sound like a bastard but women don't want equality but they want to be the domain sex... Men need to be prince charming and also a provider but they can't just be good at raising children and cooking food but a man would happily provide for a woman who was good at raising children and cooking hence the double standard that's happening and the worst bit is women are beginning to think that sleeping around or cheating is empowerment but really there pontificating the negative attitude of the toxic man. My mum was my biggest inspiration and society has easily dismissed woman and there importance and feminist easily forgotten the fathers brothers who did everything they could to help make equality happen.
It's solipsism... the women themselves value it and thus think we would as well... when we could give a shit less. It's a plus if she can support her own damn shopping habit, but I and most men don't look at a chick like "oh damn, I bet she can pay all the bills." It simply isn't a boner maker.
Actually some men are, for relationships, they want women with a good career/reputation or high caliber of some sort, they want a good match on every level, but they also do get easily tempted by any girls of course
I guess they assume that we’re attracted to the same things in women that women find attractive in men. Which is not at all the case quite the opposite in fact.
And personally money and status aren’t even things I take into consideration when looking for a partner.
You could have millions of dollars at your disposal but all that money won’t give you a attractive personality or make you good wife, mother or even girlfriend.
This is a problem, that men have, not the ladies. I'll explain it, it's quite simple.
If the girl works and makes decent money, then "men" call her a feminist.
If the girl is unemployed and relies on men financially, then she is called a gold digger.
And don't get me started about onlyfans.
Man the fuck up and stop putting women in a no-win situation.
Speak for yourself. Most men ask me what I do for a living and when I told them several of them lost interest. I’ve also seen on forums and also on dating sites men say they want a woman with university education and ”ambition” (aka career driven).
apparently the key to attracting a man is to be like a man. well guess what? it doesn't work that way. a waitress at a cafe can still be more attractive and preferrable than Ariana Grande who is worth millions of dollars.
1. Some men do.
2. It's mostly the fact that WE care about how much we make. Not so much you.
Feminism made them delusional, yea most men don't care about woman's money.
It was never a big deal for me. As long as she had a job and some ambition it was okay with me.
I do but that's because I'm an asexual numbers guy so they don't interest me outside of the business they bring me or could bring me potentially
Some women care about men carerer and other might not care.
Because we do. What kind of man doesn't care if his wife is lazy and dumb?
Reading this post and some of the comments drives home the point even further that most men are clueless about women. 🤦♂️
Sometimes you go on a date and they talk about their job and their car for 2 hours straight.
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