Why are a lot of women so hostile towards men?

[ADFSDF1996]

I'm not saying they all are but a lot of women always seem to think every man is the same. They think all men want is sex and that every man is a "creep" or a "pervert". Women tend to think they are superior to men, and they believe that women have a higher pain tolerance when some studies have debunked that. Pain tolerance is determined by the individual not the gender. Also women tend to think they are morally superior to men. A lot of women think men don't have feelings or suffer at all. Whenever a man is abused, women don't seem to care. A lot of women think it's funny when men suffer. A lot of women act as if they know all about men. I'm not saying every woman is like this but I've noticed various women with this attitude. I think this is because of misandry. Men and women should be supporting each other, not hating each other.

[feminismisnarcissism]

welcome to feminist culture lol.

I don't hate women, I hate narcissists. But due to the culture... the majority happen to be women and its simply become acceptable for them to ACT entitled, THINK they are superior, and be completely obnoxious whenever they want. But there are plenty of women worth our time also-you just have sift through all the narcs.

A wise man doesn't accept this bullshit from such people, women or otherwise and when you have clear boundaries, self respect, and a nose for narcissism... you really don't have too many problems with women in my opinion. Just don't waste your time on the ones that act like 5 year olds eh (the narcs)

[slatyb]

You think your post is about women, but it's really about you. Sure, there are some women who don't really like men, just like there are some men who don't really like women. But most women are just dying for some guy to pay some attention to them. If you are not having success dating, it's not the women. Plenty of guys are having a great time in the same dating people.

[ADFSDF1996]

I've only attempted dating once when I was 14 years old. It was successful but it only lasted a month, she broke up with me because I didn't want to make out with her infront of various people. We are still friends.

[kittykatbrat]

***Based only on MY offline life with females I actually know***

Many women have no real understanding of men AT ALL due to a total lack of dating and sexual experience with them. They then listen to and trust other women, who also have had little or no actual experience and this perpetuates myths and fear factors.

Other women though HAVE had truly bad, often violent experiences with men and channel all that pain, anger and hurt into the next guy OR the entire gender.

[MoreThanFriends]

This is true for a lot of guys as well. They've had one or two girlfriends before and think they're now experts on girls and dating lol.

[crazychickenlady]

A lot of men seem to think all women are the same. When you paint an entire gender as the same forgetting that there are individuals within it, that's when people get hostile. I wrongly accuse all men of being misogynists, men would understandably get upset. You're seeing a very small select group of woman on this website, certainly not enough to form a decent sample group to make such a statement.

[ADFSDF1996]

I never said all women are like this, it's not just on this website. It happens in public as well.

[crazychickenlady]

Well the average woman definitely doesn't hate men, nor does she believe that she's superior, merely equal. I'm just not seeing this gender warfare apparently.

[feminismisnarcissism]

@crazychickenlady FALSE-the average woman DOES think she's superior. this is why MOST domestic violence is initiated BY women-they think (and with good reason) they can get away with it. This is why MOST women have the "i have the pussy, I make the rules" attitude, etc.

There's women who believe in equality, but they sure as fuck aren't feminists or common. I would agree most women don't hate men, but most women definitely try to exploit men, and think they're above them.

For the same reason-most men believe this too (that women are superior, hold the power, etc.).

Both groups are equally confused, sad and missing out on real relationships.

[crazychickenlady]

I'm a feminist and I believe in equality. You sound very sad and hateful @feminismisnarcissim, I'm sorry that you've become so jaded about women.

[feminismisnarcissism]

no you just think you believe in equality. tell me the most serious gender disparities there are then? if you believe in equality, you'll know @crazychickenlady and spare me ad homs, that's not equality-treat me equal, talk TO me, not down to me-right now you prove you DON'T believe in equality by how you just spoke to me-you can't fake equality.

[feminismisnarcissism]

and no, I'm not jaded about women at all, I'm madly in love with a woman right now. I am however a REALIST, i dont buy the feminist bullshit narratives and I reject tyranny and narcissism movements. that says nothing about me other than I'm aware. The only movement MORE narcissistic and disgusting than feminism is zionism.

[feminismisnarcissism]

oh and it's IMPOSSIBLE to believe in equality AND be feminist-they are mutually exclusive. Feminism is gender SUPERIORITY, the ANTITHESIS of equality. thus why you won't be able to list the actual gender issues happening today.

[crazychickenlady]

I'm not going to play this "if you really know this, name three examples of it" game, nor get into an online argument with someone who I'll never meet. I wasn't talking down to you, I was talking to you like someone who obviously had some bad experiences that have soured you to an entire gender. I don't believe that I'm better than anyone, certainly not an entire gender. I'm just me.

[Luci92]

You're not wrong, some women are like this. It has a lot to do with how we're raised and what society tells us.
"Men and women should be supporting each other, not hating each other." Preach dude. I am so sick of people making it a competition about which gender is worse/has it harder etc.

[feminismisnarcissism]

be sick of it-you have that luxury. and it's not subjective-women are the ones with special rights... men are the ones committing suicide such that it's an epidemic (which settles who has it worse, obviously). So enjoy your right to be annoyed, you're a woman-you can afford to be.

[Luci92]

@feminismisnarcissism I lack the energy to bother arguing with you.

[feminismisnarcissism]

I already showed how it's not subjective. so you mean you lack the facts, the knowledge, the ability. and you're way too young to already be this bothered by the world... lol

[Luci92]

OP, thanks for mhg :)

[IvoirianGirl20]

Sorry but it's true. Both genders are becoming out of control

[ADFSDF1996]

I agree with that.

[IvoirianGirl20]

Yeah it makes me feel like I can't trust anyone

[adrianalima0]

Because most men DO want sex only a smaller minority care about "love" and feelings and giving a shit past a hookup. We're not stupid, we know and men know that. Besides, it's vary hard to find men that offer much emotional intellectual or depth that you like. Obviously men do have feelings but most men's feelings are not as deep as a woman. That is undeniable. The only men I've seen that can get near a woman emotional range are gay men. Women actually see more colors than men too. Please tell me how men are "suffering" because of women in general? Why because we don't jump on the first dick we see, or better yet, yours? Yeah, no. Some women are into promiscuity others are not. Not everyone will like you. And the beautiful women most men are after have standards most of the time, often high ones.

[IceCubedude]

all men want commitment just not with every girl they meet dont confuse that with you think men want , men dont want to seriously date every single girl they find they will have sex with them but not really date them , there are few women we think are worth our time and many factors determine that such as how attractive you are, how smart, do you sleep around, are you mentally and emotionally stable and do we like spending time with you. all men want sex that is true but women want sex too, but men also want much more just not with every woman.

[ADFSDF1996]

Whenever a man suffers domestic abuse, people like you always laugh at him or think he is to blame.

[ADFSDF1996]

A lot women like to play victim and blame all of their misfortunes on men.

[adrianalima0]

@IceCubedude: Yeah I can understand that. But at the same time not every guy is going to be able to be with a genius-level supermodel who has never been depressed or has had an easting disorder, etc. Women are incredibly complex (especially emotionally) FAR more than men are (even my dad agrees) and we're just not going to be stable 100% of the time. Lol, that doesn't even exist. Hahaha. It's just not happening. If you want perfection you better believe that YOU should be perfection as well.

@ADFSDF1996: Excuse me but domestic abuse is unacceptable whether its a man or a woman. I don't believe that either gender has the right to abuse anyone for no reason like that. I would never laugh at man getting abused wtf that is evil and just sad. I'd be the first to call the police actually.

[ADFSDF1996]

Well there are various scenarios where women have laughed. www.avoiceformen.com/.../

[adrianalima0]

Most people are evil and stupid it doesn't surprise me.

[Anonymous]

I like men better as friends. I have a more down to earth guy like personality I guess. Most girls annoy me with their small talk, vocalizing dumb issues, and shallow banter.

[IceCubedude]

they are only hostile with men they dont find attractive and want nothing from if you are rich or attractive you dont have this problem at all , its shitty i know but... what to do

[Anonymous]

Women hate us, the moment women got their independence, they shoved us under the rug. It sucks... but its life. I just focus on my career and fishing

[Napoli]

I wish guys would realise how shy women could be, or how easily hurt. Before you judge someone, think about what they might have been through.
No one is born with hostility, and most of the time it's not even that, it's just cautiousness

[Opinion Owner]

#Napoli Yea, i know what you mean. But time and time again... i'm nice to girls/women but i have only received hate... from my mother to the girls at uni to work. Nowadays i try to keep my interaction with women to a minimal. I prefer other things in life now and don't really have a drive to be with a girl.

[ADFSDF1996]

@Napoli Same goes with guys. Before you call a guy bitter, maybe you should try understand what he went through with women.

[Napoli]

I Know that. The same can be said for someone who is shy. There are couple of really shy guys I know, and, without sounding patronising, I often think "what the hell happened?" it makes me kind of sad, & protective of them in a way. Even if that sounds a bit weird.
I don't really get why you had to flip that around so quickly though. Like the fact that men get hurt makes the fact that women get hurt irrelevant. It's something everyone has to take on board. It's not a competition
One person's pain doesn't void someone else's. It can't work like that.

[AynonOMouse]

All I know is that I have a pair of those same Gripmaster things you have a picture of on your profile.

[BrittBratt2416]

Well we know men want sex.. that's obvious. But I think some are hostile cause their tired of men judging them the same men say their tired ous judging them. They could be hostile because they gone through a lot bullcrap with men that have left them angry, heartbroken, and bruised. Blame those men that are making these women feel this way because those type of men are giving men a bad name.

[ADFSDF1996]

Not all men want sex and not all men judge women, what I do notice is a lot of women playing victims and assuming all men are evil.

[BrittBratt2416]

I never said men ONLY just want sex.. I said men want sex. Or all men are judgmental to women. I was saying that because of some bad experiences with the wrong type men, some women become hostile and angry towards men.. its those type of men that give decent men a hard time because those women have trust issues against men.

[ADFSDF1996]

Yet women complain when men have similar experiences with women. Women call those men "bitter" or say "stop generalizing all women".

[BrittBratt2416]

ahh see what you did there.. not all of us think your bitter.. frustrated or angry? maybe.. we both do it.. we generalize each other and it becomes this never ending roller coaster. I don't think all men are misogynist pigs that just see women as sex object, I don't think all women are man hating feminist that can't get men... we are just frustrated cause we don't know how to communicate with each other.. it also doesn't help that their are sadly people who do think and act like that.

[ADFSDF1996]

You're one of the few that acknowledges the elephant in the room. I respect that.

[BrittBratt2416]

thank you

[ADFSDF1996]

You're welcome.

[Mesonfielde]

It's all learned behavior, it's because they think all men are the same because kids are discouraged from talking to each other at critical period such as from age 8 to 15

[bombamboum]

That was a nice pile of bullshit right here. Why do you put men as victims and generalizing women as being evil?
I don't know a single women in real life who think that way. Men and women are different, it's pretty common knowledge. Just because you hear about this bullshit then it means all women are like this? Bullshit.

When someone had problem dating, it must be easier to blame it on the others that admitting you might be the one who has to change something.

[ADFSDF1996]

Do you think men can't be victims?

[bombamboum]

Of course, anyone can be a victim, men just like women. It's just that when I read questions and comment on here, it feels like men are the poor victime of this world. We're all in the same boat.

[ADFSDF1996]

I always read the opposite.

[bombamboum]

You're a man, I'm a woman, We must be more sensitive with all the fateful things people say against our own genders.

[ADFSDF1996]

True

[bobbyxx]

That is what women do. Put women as victims and men as evil. It is of course the other way round.

[bombamboum]

@bobbyxx You really didn't understand a thing I say, did you?
You're doing exactly what I explained in this comment. Blaming women for your problems.

[bobbyxx]

No woman are to blame. You just being a typical female. It is never the girls fault, always the guys.

[bombamboum]

@bobbyxx I never said it's always the guys fault. I said many of men AND women blame other for their problem.
Though you did right " Put women as victims and men as evil. It is of course the other way round."
You on the other hand, blame women.
Learn how to read.

[bobbyxx]

You need to learn how to spell. 'right'.

[ADFSDF1996]

@bobbyxx A lot of women tend to laugh when a man is a victim.

[bobbyxx]

Yes they ridicule. It is all to do with this pathetic even up the score.

[anonman32]

I just stay away from these people man. They are harmful.

[CisScum]

Speaking in terms of feminism and anti fem, I think both sides fear monger people. That leads to hostility. Only time I see girls being hostile to guys if they are doing some "feminist" rant. I quotation that because they aren't real feminists.

[anindyameister]

There's this thing called confirmation bias. Apart from that, for both genders it's only creepy or thirsty if the person is unattractive

[Africanchild]

This is very true, anytime I get hostile with a guy it's when I'm not interested in him but keeps on pestering me.

[Anonymous]

I have faced hostility to women time and time again. I try to be nice and good to them, but instead they always turn me down. Anyway, i just keep on being the gentlemen... hoping a girl would see my heart

[goofyk101]

Women these days are scared to get too emotionally attached to just get hurt.

[MaLifeBeLikeOooAaah]

I wouldn't date that

[ADFSDF1996]

I know how you feel, I wouldn't date those kind either.

[MaLifeBeLikeOooAaah]

Not how I said "THAT" baha

[ADFSDF1996]

What did you actually mean😄?