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Are Strong, Successful, Independent, Women Considered Attractive?
Do Guys Only Care If A Girl Is Pretty And Has A Tight Body?
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(25-29) Are Strong, Successful, Independent, Women Considered Attractive?
Are Strong, Successful, Independent, Women Considered Attractive?
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Nobody is truly independent. Who is using the operating system they programmed on a device they invented using a connection they built and maintain themselves to communicate in an online forum they built and maintain? How many of you could build a pencil without assistance right now? Nobody is independent, men or women, so letās get that out of the way.
Who not what a woman is takes precedence. Things are going to change after kids, or even after time without kids. What a woman looks like in her 20ās and 30ās doesnāt mean she is going to be a great person through her 80ās. I prefer a woman who has some culture and class, but as some may have heard, Mark Twain famously cautioned against letting your schooling interfere with your education. Formal schooling is not at all the only way to become educated. Nobody wants to date or marry a loser, but there is no single agreed upon standard of what is defined as. This is one of many issues which require some serious consideration about whose interests do āyourā ābeliefsā serve? For example, do 12 hour workdays serve employeeās interests or do they serve their employerās interests as well as merchants who can keep prices artificially high because the households can afford to exchange dadās time and health and presence in childrenās lives for frivolous garbage? Is a happy well fed well read and healthy family not the most important measure of success of a life well spent? The corporate rat race can kiss my ass. Your job will have a want ad written before your corpse cools, and thatās only if they donāt invent a way to fire you for becoming too expensive to the company health plan once you age into medical problems. Your kids will be sitting in the room with you when it happens. Given an absence of social stigma and a means of economic viability Iād much rather stay home and give my kids the best possible start in life than teach other peopleās.
I wanted kids, which was a deal breaker for me on more than one occasion. Compatible long term goals are significantly more important than short term sex or short term appearance. A good mother is highly important vs an egg donor who might change her mind in a few months, is untrustworthy with kids or who would resent them or get bored or angry with them.
Neither of us play a musical instrument which is a shame, but she can play the 🍆 flute🤠
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If women actually gave a sht what men think they'd realize 90% of their lives have been a waste, thus they need to double down on the feminism, or lord their worldview over men i. e. convince men to find their college degrees more attractive than what actually makes their pants grow. Which is ironic because OF is full of this:
And not this:
So women absolutely know what men want. The brainwashed ones just want to shoehorn their failure to read the tea leaves onto men. I said what I said! Nobody cares about your MBA, your eyelash store on Amazon *read "I'm an entrepreneur," or how your body count of 87 (all before the age of 21) made you a "better person." I mean imagine being a 16 year old girl and you from the future comes back to tell you, "yea eff med school" be pretty, stay in shape, learn to cook and STFU every now and then. The doctors will come to YOU!" I'd be like shiiit ain't gotta tell me twice!
378 opinions shared on Relationships topic. No. Some of them want them to waddle to go get some more cheetos.
:) I'm tellin' ya.
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Some guys care about more than that. But others are exactly like that.
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No that would only take someone Soo far. There are a lot of pretty girls with tight bodies everywhere. More than any one guy could get through in a lifetime. So it's important to to find someone that can compliment you and your life. Someone that can motivate you to be better, stand by you and support you when life gets rough. Relationships take work and I look for someone who can adapt to an ever changing social environment and grow with the relationship. Someone that's is mature and aware of thier needs and can communicate those needs. Sure a pretty girl with a tight body and a thick booty is what gets my initial attention but I need Soo much more than that. Like LL says "I need Love". With a little Al Green mixed in "Good or Bad,. Happy or Sad"
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Personally I don't think there's an issue with strong, independent and successful, but they want someone who matches and exceeds what they have, which is a small minority of men, and those men don't want someone who has those traits which are traditionally masculine.
What they won't then do is look to the guys who don't have an issue with those traits, or maybe even find them attractive, because they will be less successful, less attractive and less ambitious, so already discarded as possibilities. Looks is like a billboard.
It might attract attention.
But it's not the deciding factor at all for most of us.
A girls personality is almost always more important to the waste majority of us.
In other words, if I have to choose between someone with a bad personality that looks amazing and someone with a great personality that looks a bit so so it might be easier for the good looker to grab my attention.
But ultimately I'd prefer the one with the personality every time for anything long term, once I notice her and the option between the two being there to being with.-
Beauty can get your foot through the door but if you want to keep your man you need to be a good fit for him (but it's difficult to pinpoint what makes a woman a good fit)
If I don't mesh with someone the relationship isn't going to last much more than a month (if that) and it will be stressful on both sides probably
Under the same token personality can make up for looks (unless your legit totally unappealing physically)
Fact is theirs a lot of variables and asking online won't yeild perfect results and only small portions of the bigger picture I'm not gonna lie, yes we do. Now that doesn't mean it's the only thing we appreciate about a girl, but it's the first and foremost decisive element. If, however, the girl turns out to be a b*tch and have a rotten personality all the good looks won't help.
Contrary to what feminism will have you believe guys just don't care about a woman's income, social status, or level of education. In general guys want a pretty girl with a tight body and a cool attitude they feel they are in sync with.
So to answer you question to the point. Yes looks are important, but they aren't everything and by no means the only thing we care about. At the end of the day we all lose our looks as we age and then what's left? So a good personality and a mutually respectful, loving relationship is just as important.- 380 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
I want to be attracted to a women physically as well as her personality. Her looks mean nothing to me if her personality is not there. You can be the most gorgeous woman and if you have a bad attitude or are just an awful person, I want nothing to do with her. Her looks draw me in but her personality makes me stay.
Most important for me is that a girl is intelligent and that I can have good and meaningful conversations with her. Body type is not that relevant, I can be attracted to skinny girls, I can be attracted to more voluptuous girls. Same as hair colour, skin colour, boob size, etc. Most important is that she is smart. A woman can be very beautiful, but if she is dumb, I couldn't be in a relationship with her. Intelligence is more important than looks.
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Tight? sure. Or she can be a loose woman - I'm flexible.
I would certainly be happier if she knew how to play some musical instrument, and- regardless of whether or not in the military per se she at least knew handgun fundamentals and could carry effectively. I need someone to protect me. ;- ) Tight body is great but only goes so far. Honestly I'd prefer her to be highly educated to where I feel like I'm leaving the conversation having learned something or a different perspective.
Absolutely look for maternal instincts and even pay attention to her family relationships and dynamics.
Low stress is a must. Good sense of humor or at the very least doesn't take herself too seriously, and can hold her own and roast me from time to time.We are visual creaturesā¦so, I would want someone that has some visual attributes that catch my attention. But that is far from the only things that attracts me. I need someone that is mentally stimulating with a compatible personality/temperament. Someone with a sense of humor and is active but doesnāt mind relaxing/laying around/taking it easy.
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Not the only thing we care about but itās what we notice first and what gets our attention but if she is really dumb and canāt do much then Iām probably not going to stick around too long if she isnāt compatible with me as in interests and similarities
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If that was all that mattered, a sex doll would be enough and men wouldn't need to go after women. A womans mind can be an incredibly sexy thing and to have a kind & caring personality can make her perfect. Point is we like the person attached to the body. The body is just a plus
321 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Appearance is superficial and looks can fade. What is more attractive is an intelligent woman who is confident and not concerned with what people think of her. She may be beautiful but does not flaunt it.
The bottom line is I look for more in a woman then her body.Could lie to you and say men are attracted to success... But we basically pick a girl 70% based on apperance...
However with that being said, i wouldn't date a dumb beauty queen... At least have some kind of personality... Just average at least-
Of course not, the beauty is important but there's more than beauty... the character is important, the matching between me and her, the lifestyle... etcWe in Egypt say : The beauty of body is mortal, the most important thing is the beauty of the soul!!
Pretty and a tight body is a bonus and yes, that will initially catch my eye, but thats not all there is. Determination, ambition, creativity, EQ, discipline are fantastic qualities and those will be the deciding factors as to whether I stay with a girl.
for your follow up question, yes very muchTo understand your question, they are inner beauty and outer beauty.
all men (myself include) are attracted to outer Beauty (physical looks) because thatās just how men view things. But once they start to express their inner beauty (personality) our point of view could drastically change.If I only cared about girls being pretty and having a tight bodies then me being an atheist of the catholic family, understanding my trauma and life, escaping a psychopathic teacher that wanted to rape me and kill me, understanding how the world works, understanding why I am attracted to both females and males, and helping my friend not commit suicide at age of 16 would have been a waste of time because my entire personality I have been developing for almost two decades would just make me a horny man with no real values and no redeeming qualities whatsoever.
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I like girls who are pretty, but with curvy and plus size bodies. That's not the means to the end though. She also has to have the right personality, similar interests and values, etc.
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Looks aren't everything. A pretty face/nice body is NOTHING if it is paired with an ugly heart/nasty personality.
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