No. I donāt care for abs. The thing about having an athletic body, itās attractive to us bcus it shows us that he takes care of himself, maybe heās sporty which is hot cause he has an interest that we can talk about or I can go to watch his games or meets, he eats well, etc. prehistorically itās probably attractive cause he can like, go hunt for food for us faster and run away from dangerous shit quicker and all. but no, in my personal opinion donāt be like obese or anorexic, and no need for him to be a bodybuilder either. Just somewhere in the middle is perfect.
I think many girls have an ideal "body type" they like. For example, I find bulked fit guys physically attractive above all else (a little fat on them, and I'm not a 6-pack fan personally). That's part of what will attract my interest initially, however I love anything and everything about a guy I fall in love with. At that point, that superficial stuff doesn't matter (just stay healthy!). It's a plus if a guy has a nice body, meaning he takes care of himself. Just do that and be healthy, and you will be fine 😊
From what am experiencing my self is women are attracted to me because of their husbands/partners being overweight and careless about their body. I have few friends when they reached age 29 or 30 they just started being careless about their bodies and they got fat (both females and males) while the other is trying to stay in shape and making few healthy benefits for their own. This is just reality , a partner seeing their SO letting it go and they get fat do get tired and start looking at others who has a nice body (in their opinion) and not a must to be bulked or works out just thin.
Not willing to date a chubby/obese guy nor will I date a guy that looked like he took one too many steroids. I think there is a nice middle in which the picture you provided fits. The criteria is be skinny and you're good, but if you have a six pack, it is preferred.
Based on my own experience: it doesn't. (Well, unless you're morbidly obese or something.) Thanks to good genetics and a fast metabolism, I've always had a very decent, athletic looking body without having to do a lot of work to earn it. Even still, I had zero (literally zero) female attention throughout high school and even university. It started getting better over the last year, but only because I forced myself to take action and stop being shy and awkward around girls. Moral of the story: a good body won't get you anywhere, it's nice to have it obviously, but it's something you get for your own appreciation, not anyone else's. As cheesy as it sounds, what matters really is your personality and self-confidence.
It is a turn off if he is not athletic at all. Again, I care more about pecs, biceps, triceps, shoulders and back than abs... as long as you don't have a fat belly it is fine... just don't be lazy and get skinny fat. actually, fat on the hips, bum and legs is the worst for guys as it makes them look feminine.
I think guys or girls kinda have these assumption of opposite genders having unrealistic expectations but generally people know shame and they have the sense of "know thy place." Like for guys, there are some guys who are very superficial, but also lot of guys tend to claim that looks don't matter that much. Which seems to be true at least in my experience. I think its same for the girls, of course it would be nice if their significant others had those qualities, but also are they only and specifically looking for those and are absolute necessity? Probably not.
Heart probably matters more generally. Have a heart of gold, learn a way to show the girl that you are that person, its not only for show and portrayal. We all love a good person, not many of us love models who has the personality of dogshit.
i care more about his personality. i am no model by any objective standards, so i can't be a hypocrite and expect a six-pack. i'm not gonna lie. yes, the guy in the pic is hot. but it takes more than hotness to make me love a guy. as long as he is tall, broad-shouldered, and thin to a degree or average weight, i do not mind at all.
Body is important to a certain extent, as there are bodies that kill my attraction (obese bodies, for example). But when it comes to fit bodies is more a plus for me. A body approximately like that guy's looks really nice. Denying that would be a lie. But for me a face do more. I mean, between a cute faced guy who is not fit but neither too fat and a average/meh faced guy who has a hot body, I would feel a greater attraction for the cute faced. So it's not a turn off if the guy has no 6 pack.
No it doesn't matter. Yeah that body looks hot but so do lots of other different body types. For me I would prefer to be with a guy who had a not of meat on him rather than someone who didn't and was like a stick.
Muscles and abs are great but no it doesn't really matter if you have them or not as long as your happy in your own skin.
Yes. I got preferences, like that guy in the photo does nothing for me. I like chest hair and some meat on my men. Like the guy in this photo, but with more hair on his chest and stuff.
Most women donāt really care about menās bodies because they arenāt as visual as men are. It doesnāt matter how physically fit he is. Unfortunately most women tend to put more emphasis on Personality and or financial stability.
Of course there are some women out there who do put a lot of emphasis on a manās face and body but they are less common.
I think any girl/woman who claims it really doesn't is either lying or fooling themselves. We all have a deep rooted preference for beauty, whether or not we're genuine people who care about personality the most, no one can claim that looks doesn't matter at all. Which is why I always call BS on those who do. Because I know there's someone out there they wouldn't be able to date because of their bad looks.
Everyone has different likes and dislikes. I'm just not wired to be attracted to a guy who doesn't exercise, because I love exercising.
For me, arm muscles are must, but does not need to be huge. Chest muscles are second must. Abs and other muscles are bonuses.
However, if a guy does not have nice personality, even if he is shredded and muscular, it won't do much to me, because the entire person is important as a whole.
99% of guys won't get anywhere near this level of definition. I'm not into it myself, when you touch it it almost feels just like tight meat. I don't like obesity because it's just unhealthy and it shows that the person doesn't care for themselves and that they're just too plain lazy to look after themselves. I have no time for that amount of apathy.
Personally, Iām usually turned off by really defined abs like the guy in the picture, but I appreciate someone who stays in shape. Fit but not obvious, try-hard, meathead fit is ideal for me.
@Ponycargirl12 I was telling my friend that I donāt find the Chrises attractive and she was so confused! I guess I care more about the face than the body. What kind of face do you usually like?
@Ponycargirl12 Lately I think freckles are cute, but I usually really like short, dark hair and light blue eyes. Piercings, tats, and long hair are an absolute no.
I'm not going to lie and say I don't enjoy eye-candy, because I do, but no, it's not really a big deal. Personality is so much more important. Besides, everyone has different tastes. I, for one, have never found 6 pack abs all that attractive.
So looking at girls responses its no no no depends no no no to a certain degree no no. Now take on the fact girls lie when giving advice they say the opposite meaning the answer to this is yes yes it does. Unless you like to believe āI like a guy who makes me laughā
I always say: "men value beauty and fertility". "women value status".
Status is defined as the characteristics that determine a man's status among men (career, desirability among women, charisma, leader of his male pack, income, etc).
Each girl is attracted to certain body types. Like some guys like big boobs, other small ones or average sized, or the booty size or... So do girls like nerdy thin boys, others like the dad bod, some the slightly athletic, other fully muscular...
Yes, to a degree. It's all part of the package. Chemistry. Voice. Face. Body. It all combines to lead to physical attraction. No one thing is a deal breaker to me. Personality most of all, but cannot rule out the physical.
You have abs too, even though they are not visible. It is just that they aren't toned enough. It's upto you on how you want them to be š.
Aur vese bhi abs tw bonus hai mere liye š, mein tw pull ups karta tha biceps ke liye for more strength, stomach par load pada tw abs apne aap hi aa gaye.
Well, physical attraction plays a big part, but when someone (be it girl or guy) is enamored or in love with someone, they will always be attractive to them.
My girlfriend is a lot more attractive than me and I don't honestly understand what she sees in me physically, yet she's attracted to me, both physically and emotionally.
The second I became jacked my Tinder matches went from hardly nothing to 800+ with nothing but girls wanting to hook up where as the majority were actually hot. Lol @ anyone who thinks being jacked doesn't matter. You'll never know until you become jacked
It really depends on the girl. Many girls like athletic guys just like guys like toned girls but people differ anyway. My friend is into skinny/lanky guys, I am not into that at all, I'd rather date a chubby guy.
For me Iām not really into any ārippedā guys. I used to think that looks was all that mattered but now I really donāt care as long as the person makes me happy. Obesity/ over weight is a turn off however for me the guy doesnāt need to have the āmodelā body
I'd prefer a guy with good body but I've like guys without muscle also not fat or overweight etc. But as I train at the gym all the time thats why I tend to prefer guys who more sporty / gym etc. Similar goals so it's just natural.
Character is what matters The body can impress us for some short amount of time But if the guy is stupid or can't communicate and make an easy conversation with us then it doenst
Iām a pretty healthy person, I donāt have a 6 pack or veiny muscles, which I donāt find attractive so maybe thatās a good thing? I wouldnāt mind if a girl said I should eat excercise to get some if she wants them but they shouldnāt be pushy about it. Damn right I would go to the gym with her if she wanted it though :)
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To me, is like the first thing I notice in someone's appearance.
For me, it matters. I don't find any fat attractive. It's shallow, but it is how if is for me. He doesn't have to be super athletic. Guys who are not ripped, but are toned and like to exercise are the most attractive to me.
All i have to say is people who train to attract girls are retarded and probably looking bad. I train for my self , not for other people. Its just ur decision how u want to look. And i guess many girls dont want too skinny guys , i mean they want someone at least little bit bigger then them selfs. And i guess its not hard, just eat little more and you will be bigger then every girl
No not at all. Everyone has different body types and preferences. As long as you love yourself it's fine and you'll find someone who loves your body too. Confidence is key.
It doesn't really matter to me... but if he has one it'd be nice IG. If he ended up being some narcissist or douche then it definetly wouldn't be worth it
Not body overall but ur physical features - height , ( ur face ) , and overall shape not your body because u can be ripped as fuck with 10-12 % body fat on steroids but if ur face is ugly then you know good luck
No, I prefer muscular guys with a chubby stomach. He has to be fit in some way. Abs are not required.
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When a girl likes a guy she will find everything about him attractive. Even if he had flabās or abs or man boobs or he is skinny. Itās all part of the package thats him. And if she truly wanted him sheād want it all. Like me.
Doesnāt matter so much. I do not like idea of dating really good looking guy anyway. I would be afraid he leave me for more hot girl and afraid many girls will try steal him 😬
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