While I have to agree that fat arms or 'wings' are indeed ugly, especially when the fat bunches up around the elbow, it's certainly not something I would care about or consider a reason not to love someone for, either.
Guys who care about fat and looks will always be turned off by fat, it's as simple as that. Luckily most guys, especially the types who will be looking for a nice long relationship as well, won't care about fat arms and such.
So in answer to your question, some do, some don't, the ones who do will quietly insult you in his head or to his friends from across the room, and the ones who don't will be viable choices for your later relationship. And he certainly won't care if he's the one for you too. :)
Hmm, I used to have fat triceps, or 'wings' but I got rid of them by lifting a dumbell a lot at nights. Turn the fat into muscle which won't wobble, I guess. Still...they say muscles on a girl are a slight turn off, but if you tone them up right, it shouldn't be too bad, I guess. Can't really say.
Hope whatever you choose to do, you feel better about yourself soon. :)
Let me give you my take! In short: I love thick arms. But then, I love thick everything. People sometimes question my admiration of thick women because in their minds, it's a fact that thin is beautiful and excess weight is ugly. This Is sad, but I dont concern myself with it because I love what I love.
But case in point, I dont enjoy the sight of a womans bone structure. Especially, the pubic and breast bones. I like everything soft and cushy. I dont care for terribly, obese figures, but I do like belly, yes the belly that hangs over. I think it's cute when a girl keeps tugging at her shirt to try and hide it, but also, sad because it's not necessary, and society traumatizes women's thinking to cause that behavior. Oh, and I love thick thighs--no gap allowed!
Just had to chime in because I'm one of those guys on the opposite side of the spectrum. Show off those thick arms, ladies... and thighs.
P. S. I like to eat, and I like my woman to like to eat. Never trust a skinny cook!
If you're not fat, like you say you aren't, then your arms can be worked on and toned. Do lateral raises, bicep curls, and tricep exercises using free weights. I do 12-15 pound weights and 50 reps. I imagine that yoga would also lean you overall, I'm going to start doing that.
And guys won't really notice your "fat" arms in relation to your body if you described yourself accurately. So don't lose too much sleep over it. :)
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All my friends are self-conscious about their arms, saying they are too fat and everything, when the fact is that their arms are perfectly fine and I love them. I do care if a girl has fat arms, but unless you are actually overweight, it's not going to bother me.
You don't need skinny arms to be attractive. I actually don't like skinny arms. I like having something to grab (and kiss) over there. :p
Basically, if they're still firm, you don't have ANYTHING to worry about. The problem starts when they become VERY flabby and a little wrinkly. But seeing as how you have a flat stomach, I seriously don't think you have anything to worry about.
I'd be more than happy to tell you what I think from a picture. =p
I personally find myself more attracted to curvy women just as you have described. I have dated various physical types but for me the women portrayed in Jean A. Dominique's paintings pretty much sum up my taste. Women can be slim, trim athletic or skinny if they so choose in order to meet some preconception of attractiveness, but what really matters is how you feel about yourself. My opinion is that thick arms, thighs and even a bit of a belly are very attractive qualities in a healthy woman. (I should also note that I am 6'3" and 250lbs... so the tiny ones are a bit of a mismatch for me anyway)
What you described literally sound like the ideal physique for girls in my opinion. I don’t like thick bellies, but I love it when girls have thick butt and especially soft thick arms. My ex had thick arms and it was amazing to hold them and squeeze them when we were cuddling together. It’s almost like having extra boobs to hold on to if that makes sense 😅
P. s. I’m 5’11” 165lb and fairly toned myself, but for me the ideal girl would be someone around my weight (160lb) but in the 5’2” to 5’6” range
If that is your issue than tone your body... Do you lift weights or do yoga? Fat arms and even a double chin is a turn off, even if the girl is skinny.
Of course we fvcken' care, come on! Would you care if a guy had big fatty fat fat arms? I fvcking hope so or you'd have on disasterous child together.
i actually prefer somewhat thick arms ( but I don't like fat girls with stomach fat hanging over)
As a guy, I only care because I think it's sooo attractive when a girl has chubby or fat arms. Please do not hide your arms. They seriously sound so beautiful.
No, I love fat, chubby arms and shoulders!
No. I find them cute and likeable
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