Do you sometimes not respond to people for days, is that ok?

[Deserter]

There's this girl I was talking to but I don't know, I've heen busy, haven't responded to her in 2 days.

[JustAnj]

You could be direct with her and ask her how she feels about it. If it's a common thing for you let her know that this is something you casually do if she does wonder about it and let her know that it's common thing with you since you get caught up in your daily life. This will help her understand not to take it personally.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

You were too busy to respond in two days? Is anyone really ever that busy? We can and will make time for the things/people that are important to us...🤷🏼‍♀️

[Deserter]

Honestly, I suck at getting the conversation going

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

But like you told me that, tell her that...
So she doesn't think it's disinterest

[Deserter]

Yeah, but she might think I'm weird if I say that

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Because you're honest about having insecurities.. 🤷🏼‍♀️ or admitting what you feel you're not good at...
I'd think that would be more appreciated than being ignored for days

[Khronuskeeper]

Guilty. I'm not a fan of texting. Give me a time and date and I'll go through quite a bit of effort to meet up with you on short notice though

[Deserter]

Yes, it seems like an unnatural means of communicaion when actually trying to have a conversation with someone

[Jamie05rhs]

You should probably respond to her, dude.

[Guy13]

Explain why... if she's so attached to social media that she has to be stimulated all the time then it is her problem

[Deserter]

It's a girl from Tinder I was going to go out with, still plan to

[hellomellow7]

Usually if someone takes that long to respond I think they’re ignoring me or done with me.. or I wonder if I even crossed they’re mind at all

[AssholeNumberOne]

Yeah