Can girls be creeps?

Question

Can girls be creeps?

Texaskid1 · Accepted Answer

Fuck yes.

I have lost count of the number of creepy , perverted women I have run into. A few examples:

- at one of my jobs from about 12 years there was a female coworker who would openly talk about her sexual escapades in the break room during lunch hour. I stopped eating lunch their.

- I had one younger female coworker - about 23 years old - who spent two years ( yes , two solid years) flirting with me to the point it was uncomfortable. She would stare at me and consistency check me out , and also give me the elevator eyes many times ( look me up and down in a provocative manner). I hard ignored but is was weird as fuck. At the time she had a boyfriend but she would still do that. I heard she got married last year. Good for her.

- When I was in high school there was a girl who had a crush on me and would follow me home and - I shit you not - hide around the corner and watch my house. She would be there when I would leave home to walk to school in the morning.

- at another job there was a female secretary who had a male swimsuit calendar inside her desk that she would take out and show off to me and some female colleges. She also kept penis shaped candies on her desk and would always make eyes with me and ask me about my status (she was married by the way).

- I also had one ex-coworker who , I believe wanted , a more personal relationship with me. I used to make chit chat with her frequently. She would often stare at me and one day she alluded to having a more personal relationship but I shot her down quick. She then tried to get me in trouble at work. Form that point on I no longer make chit chat with female coworkers as some might take my friendliness as flirting.

Unfortunately , most people think women are incapable of such actions ( #believeallwomen, "only men can be perverted" ) so if I as a man were to complain it is probable that is would not be taken seriously.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes they can, I had an encounter with a girl at my work once when I was 19. We had just met and she wanted me to drive her home. I agreed. It was dark outside and it was late at night. While walking to my car in the dark parking lot she randomly laughed and lifted up my shirt and slapped my butt. I had only onwijs her for 10 minutes. I didn’t really know how to react but I just ignored it. When we got to the car on the drive to where she wanted me to drop her off she was making weird comments like feel my thighs I just shaved them etc. I was a 19 year old shy virgin at the time and she wasn’t that attractive to me but her comments made me feel pressured to touch her bc she kept pushing me and I felt like I would be fun of it called gay for not doing it. So I ended up touching her leg and it was very awkward but I was just an easily manipulated teen at that point who didn’t know better.

When I dropped her off I realized she told me to stop in a parking lot where another car was waiting for which was also weird she didn’t have me take her to her house. If someone else was driving her home why did she want me to drop her off in a parking lot? Kind of sketchy.

All in all as a guy I didn’t really feel unsafe per se but it made me uncomfortable and felt pretty awkward. I was a very skinny 6 foot man at the time and she was a bit stockier 5’1 girl so I wasn’t really worried about her overpowering me or becoming violent but all in all pretty awkward encounter. I noticed she wasn’t working there anymore after that.

I think if the same thing happened to me now I wouldn’t tolerate the double standards and I’d stand up for myself more and tell her to not touch me like that or I won’t drive her home and I don’t know her that well in a more authoritarian tone instead of just ignoring it.

Vickymoore9 · Accepted Answer

Yeah my baby daddy had a stalker a few years after we broke up lol. He was at a laundromat met a girl took her to his place they fucked. She stalked him scrapped her name across his hood of his car. My daughter was like 3 years old at the time he was afraid as she told him she was going to beat me up. I was dating another guy at the time it took almost a year before she stopped. So yeah they can be very crazy stalker bitches out there beware of that shit!

JustAnj · Accepted Answer

Yes very much so very much.

My friend kinda was like this when I first met her she was a bit lustful. But I learned to live with her crazy personality love her to bitz.

My husband had a stalker for a little while in college she made that very clear. Told him she'd get over him, she did.

markml · Answer

Most guys wouldn't use that term to describe a girl.

Instead, the girl would be referred to as a psycho-b**** or something similar. It mostly means the same thing but there are some differences.

One of the key differences is that girls use the term "creep" both to describe guys who act inappropriately and guys who are unattractive, and sometimes they conflate the two.

Guys, on the other hand, call girls who act inappropriately crazy but it hasn't nothing to do with attractiveness. If a girl is unattractive, she'll instead be called fat, ugly or dyke (even if she's actually straight). Or if the guy is classy, he just won't say anything.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

YES!!! omg YEAS!!! I've seen them do the absolute worst bullshit to try and trap me into being with them. We're talking manipulation on big brain levels... The types of manipulation that even involve other people... From my experience, women are fucking creeps in general. Much respect to a woman that will just tell me to fuck off when I'm in the wrong and has respect for herself but that isn't the majority.

I've found some safety by being in a relationship. But when I was single... these bitches would literally try to force me to be their boyfriend. They get it in their heads that it's a good idea and then they don't want to take no for an answer.

JSmuve · Answer

I'm gonna provide a counter opinion. What is a "creep"? Just someone whose actions make you uncomfortable and uneasy. So, yes, by that definition, girls can be creepy, if her actions make you uncomfortable. But if they do make you feel that way, is that a "her problem" or a "you problem"? I've had girls stare at me, grab my ass, and cat call me. Most people would find such behavior creepy. I didn't, though. I knew where the behavior was coming from but it didn't really bother me. So if I didn't find their behavior creepy, was it really creepy, even though other people might say it was? Same logic applies with women, just on a much larger scale since women get uneasy about everything. It's why so many have anxiety and call the smallest thing or gesture creepy, even though it probably wasn't.

Solrosen · Answer

I had this class mate that I guess were autistic in some way. She were terrible grasping the current situation, when to talk, what to say etc. She tried making dirty jokes all the time but they were always told at the worst time. It could be really embarrassing from time to time.

trumpets310 · Answer

Yes, but often they get a pass from doing so unfortunately. I had a classmate in high school who would playfully touch my chest, butt, or package. I would tell her to stop and she would, only to do it again a week later. Other people just thought it was funny or that I must like it, but it's not funny and I didn't. She was definitely a creep

Freyke · Answer

Yes they can. It's not gender locked. Some people don't know how to properly interact with others.

Random woman runs her hand through your hair, or shoulders, abs. You're invading my personal space and I don't know you get away from me.

A random nude from a girl I barely know. I find it strange, does she consider that normal? Where is the mystery, the class? How serious is this? Just a hookup?

Lurkergao · Answer

women can act incredible cringe and creepy and not get called out for it. they can also be actually physically dangerous usually by manipulating you into a compromising situation. always have an exit strategy ready for a girl and consider carefully if your view of her as a good person in your head matches up with what you have actually observed in her actions. ignore justifications or excuses focus on her actions.

Adronicus · Answer

Yes! I had a total stranger never seen before, layer learned was a neighbor drive into private property, I was tanning naked on my roof, I hate tan lines & she looks me up & down, says "it's hot out". Some guy was driving her & all I felt was revulsion. & thinking I hope that wasn't her husband / boyfriend. The odd thing is she was cute & under different context I would of been down.

TexasRed95 · Answer

100% yes. In highschool this girl was obsessed with me. I never saw her outside of school and one day she approached me at school and showed me her phone. She had a picture of my house late at night and pointed to MY bedroom window and she just asks. "Hey I have been trying to find out more about you. This one is your room right?"

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Yes. Often its either the feminist look ie like doc martins and a boy cut green hair. Thats creepy asf. Or has hairy legs or pits. Ewww. Wtf.

Or its the ogre look. she's like 280lbs but tall and looks like a linebacker. Human growth hormone injections? Escaped from the zoo? Bred to be a new species of hard labor slaves? Sorry but she needs to soften herself up, its creepy and scary to see these "girls" walking around devouring whole pizza pies to themselves.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Of course, but I have an issue with the word creepy, since I think it's the most subjective word. Women get spooked easier, so they are likely to call a man that WAY more than the other way around. For example, when I was in high school a drunk girl I sorta knew came up suddenly and kissed me on the mouth without consent. I was put off, but I didn't think her 'creepy'.

anton_dee · Answer

Yup. I had one hitting hard on me. She would force me to chat till late night and get pissed if I'm offline for even 1 minute. I had to think 10 times before I type a message as she would pick out one word and belly ache bout it. I was like dayumm girl, u psycho...

Anonymous · Answer

There was this girl at my school years ago who was creepy touchy feely. She'd just give people unwanted massages, and sit way too close to you and tell really awkward stories. She actually managed to give both all the guys and the girls, the creeps.

Sonorous · Answer

Oh yeah! But it's harder for them to be seen as creepy due to smaller size, greater femininity, a higher perceived attractiveness level than the average male, etc.

MCheetah · Answer

Theoretically, yes. Like a teacher who sleeps with one of her students. But I've never met any before.

kellytheman · Answer

Yes. If they are stalking you or giving you unwanted touching that to me makes her a creep but honestly I do think it's more acceptable because she a woman then if a man's does it he probably gonna go to jail for sexual assault.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I once had an unstable woman threaten to hurt me on the bus - I think she was either drunk or high on some drug

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Definitely. Society has just been conditioned to accept it as normal behavior. I’ve heard women say plenty of things that would get a man on a watchlist.

annabananna · Answer

Omg yes I’ve seen it. I’ve been creeped out myself by how a girl has been with a guy before.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I'm sure some of them can. Thankfully I've never really had any girl be creepy to me. Only one time one of them asked me about my dick. I thought it was rude, but not creepy.

KimRobert · Answer

It’s not viral… few are just being nasty and naughty.

IsoUser · Answer

Girls can be very creepy trust me Lmao especially when they're holding your cock and balls in their hot hands looking you directly into eyes saying this is mine as they gently squeeze.

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

Absolutely, having many female friends helped make sure they can be creeps, stalkers and freaks too

JustinTheGreat · Answer

Yes. But it’s definitely more common for men to be creeps

globetrotter22 · Answer

Yes but society gives them a lot more leeway than vice versa.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Yes, yes they can. I've encountered more than a few.

aquamarine321 · Answer

Yes, had a experience like that that twice while going to school

Jamesshinobi · Answer

yeah of course they can. jokes on them though. thats my fetish

schoolislikeauswhtiz · Answer

yes, some female are addicited to porn. but do the polis care about you getting molested by whaman tee, no  they just think you high on drug and put you in rehibilatation center.

whiskeyontherocks · Answer

I think more girls are creeps than guys but it’s just excepted more for some reason

Luopio27 · Answer

There are freaks in all races, all genders, all levels of society.

Chill_Meta · Answer

Hell yes, when girls are they are twice as worse as dudes who are

Grubhub · Answer

Yea The creepiest thing I’ve ever witness was a girl track me down in her car. I’ve never had a girl look at me like that thank god 🙏

OddBeMe · Answer

Im sure they can be…but the whole sex offender thing men keep doing overshadows….

domenico07 · Answer

Absolutely. Has nothing to do with gender, and has everything to do with certain personality traits

Sour-rose · Answer

Absolutely. It embarrasses me.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Oh absolutely! Women can be very creepy

Marshymallow · Answer

Anyone can be a creep regardless of their gender.

nisnaia · Answer

There are plenty of those yes.

Aurora1010 · Answer

Of course, why not?

Pinay_ako · Answer

Of course. And pervs

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Of course. Why would you think otherwise?

Whatever2929292 · Answer

Yup... they certainly can

Agape93 · Answer

Oh yeah, absolutely

TrueConfection · Answer

Definitely!!!

FunnyName · Answer

I think they very well can be

AsaKyo · Answer

Yeah, I'm a prime example

crossdressingrihno · Answer

Hell yeah! Dated one once :( didn't end well

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

Yea I've seen a few on here actually

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Absolutely!

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I KNOW they can be flaming assholes!

DiamondsReal · Answer

Yea if you look at them weirdly

Fuentes · Answer

Sure they're creepy chicks out there

Pudsmucker · Answer

Oh yes, they can be the worst kind of creeps.

Red-Blaze · Answer

Yes absolutely

SilverRain92 · Answer

They can be for sure 😅😂

maximumpower · Answer

big, huge, monstrous YES

whatulike · Answer

Um... yeah even creepier

thatssuppy190 · Answer

Yea but mainly the ugly ones

Djaay · Answer

Lmao... what a can of worms this question is.

Can girls be creeps?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Can girls be creeps?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.