t-shirt. I mean why if I can, not to have the least expose of my naked self?
Do you also try to hide your naked self? Or you love your privates to be shown?
I love how its mostly the older men saying its fine and they like it... I hate it. Havin women walk past and naked. Thankfully I changed to a gym where there's 6 little bathrooms you go in that has a toilet, sink, shower and a nice place to put your bag and towel so you have total privacy.
Makes sense. Why is being naked around others so bad? Younger men don’t like being compared while older men are comfortable with themselves and confident. Women tend to be more worried about their looks so it makes sense they would be worried about it.
It’s like shitting in a public restroom. Forgive the crude example. When you crap you might try and be quite and flush early to avoid embarrassment. Why? Everybody without question poops. Everybody gets a bad case of gas at some point. Everybody eventually gets cellulite. Everybody’s body ages. Everybody’s hair grows. Everybody’s body sweats and smells. Everybody has either a penis or a vagina.
Why worry?
It has absolutely NOTHING to do with confidence or comparing. I just don’t want to see peoples naked. Bodies. It’s weird as hell, do that at home.
From the name I’m assuming your of Muslim culture? If so that makes sense. Culture can impact people and how they think. That being said where’s your disgust coming from?
You have no control over these women or their actions so you can either vent or figure out why it bothers you and get over it. For me I never liked being naked in the showers at school cause I got a baby carrot lmao! Ima grower not a shower and it took me years to get over it… now I’m pretty sure my neighbors mighta caught me through my back door naked a few times and I really couldn’t care less. It’s my home and this is the changing rooms some of the few places your allowed to be naked.
Me Muslim? BRUH🤣 it means SarahJane, which is me you imbecile, it’s an Afrikaans thing. I’m not Muslim or anything. I just don’t want naked people walking around me and I literally do not know a single person who likes that either. I’ve only ever heard complaints about it. Older people do it more and fair you guys don’t care about your bodies but damn, I don’t want to see some woman’s boobs or vag. The gym I’m at now is owned by young people so no wonder they have nice private rooms.
Imbecile? Don’t come at me with insults because your a self conscious cunt.
You’re*
And no I’m not self conscious lmao but Jesus not everyone wants to see people walking around naked. I gave MY opinion and YOU made a comment under my opinion. I do not care what you think nor will my mind change about the whole walking round naked at the gym. It’s gross. I’ll gladly do that with a partner or something at home for sure. I do not want to see other people naked and thankfully the gym I’m at now supports that too where people want PRIVACY. End of.
Yes, it really gets my goat. What do you have to prove? I don't want to see your hair snatch. Because let's face it, it's always them.
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I think walking around naked in a locker room like an elephant swinging his trunk from side to side like a pendulum is ridiculous and completely unnecessary. I swam competitively from ages 8 to 14 and have been dealing with locker room behavior from an obviously young age. I recall feeling self conscious and embarrassed having not yet hit puberty and was often surrounded by grown men sporting hair from head to toe. It bothered me slightly less as I got older…but I never engaged in the practice of walking around commando. I would have my towel on, and when it was time to slip my boxers on, I would make it a very quick and discreet process. And even doing so, I still felt eyes on me Everytime…. guys are so freakin’ weird. Thank God I don’t deal with locker rooms, pools and saunas anymore. I tried for YEARS to analyze the mentality behind displaying your nude body to other men… and to this day haven’t figured it out. Is it an exhibitionist thing? Macho or masculine? Are they proud of their junk and want to let it all hang out? Is it comparable to the hideous men at nude beaches who shouldn’t be seen naked but in horror films? (Which by the way I consider a perversion by both sexes)…. If anyone can tell me the reason (s) for this I would really be interested to know.
I’m not annoyed by it if it’s just in the process of getting showered and/or changed. We’re all guys here, it’s fine. At the same time…we’re all guys here, and no one wants to see your dickenballs flappin’ in the breeze. Old men seem to be oddly comfortable naked. I don’t want to see the best of us naked, let alone your wrinkly bag of bones lmfao. Like why are you walking to/from the shower butt ass naked but your towel is over your shoulder? Wrap it around your waist for fuck sake, what are we doing here? Walk to the shower covered, walk out of the shower covered…. is that too much to ask? I understand you’ll be naked for a minute while you towel off, that’s fine, we can all just avert our eyes. It’s the nude parade through the length of the locker room that gets me, or when they take their time drying off, and they’re like standing there with one foot up on a bench talking current events with you, just hanging brain right in your face. Kindly get the fuck outta here with that. And it’s ALWAYS the old guys, I just don’t understand. I once saw a dude standing naked reading the paper, just air drying, apparently, no towel or anything, just naked as a jaybird, and he’s holding the newspaper up unnaturally, as you would if you were playing charades and we’re trying to mime the action of reading a newspaper. Like he wasn’t looking down at it, his arms were raised so it was vertical, right in front of his face, obviously just leaving his junk exposed for all to see. That’s just weird, man. You can’t tell me you’re not getting some sort of jollies off of that exhibitionism.
I mean why if I can, not to have the least expose of my naked self?
It's fine if you are shy and don't feel comfortable to be undressed in front of others, but realize that the locker room is a place to change clothes and therefore some degree of nudity is a matter of fact there.
Also, many people like myself played sports growing up and we just weren't afforded privacy. We had one big shower room with showers in the middle coming out of one central stand. Back then you just did not have any privacy, so it became normal to see and be seen nude.
Do you also try to hide your naked self? No.
Or you love your privates to be shown? Not "love your privates to be shown" but not ashamed of my body either. If someone sees me nude, well I guess they have seen me nude. Not a concern of mine.
It’s not a big deal as long as you’re only naked for a short time till you get dressed. Everyone does it. It’s not like it’s in front of the opposite gender or anything. But I guess there’s nothing really wrong with doing what you do either if that’s what makes you feel comfortable.
Every time I walked in my gym there was always a naked old dude right there. I hated it. It’s always the really old wrinkly dudes that seem to be way too comfortable walking around naked.
It bothered me when I stripped naked. My privates are exactly that, private. For my eyes and my girlfriend’s eyes only. Anything outside of that I’m uncomfortable. I come home smelly after a workout and shower there and change in toilet stalls if I need to.
It’s how I’ve always done it since I was a kid and I just never really got comfortable any other way. There were shower stalls in my junior high school locker room which helped. If someone sees my ass I’m not overly bothered. My family jewels is what I’m conscious about.
I think it is ingrained in a lot of us to be ashamed of being naked in front of others, even other family members. I remember feeling embarrassed in changing rooms or on beaches when the towel slipped.
However these days I don't. That doesn't mean I flaunt my naked body, dancing around the changing room with brazen mirth. What it does mean is that I pay less attention to others and feel more comfortable in my own skin. A private cubicle is preferable because I feel like my belongings are more secure, and because it alleviates the inevitable feeling of vulnerability when getting changed. But if I must change quickly I simply do so without towel wrapping.
Life is too short and already difficult enough without adding the frustration other people being naked in changing rooms might be bringing you!
I think a lot comes down to respect for others.
i don’t mind overly a person being nude, it is however annoying when they are getting in to everyone’s space, making a thing of being naked.
i don’t really want some guys bits in close proximity to me as he gets dried or tries to chat to you.
for me, I finish swim, at gym, etc get into changing rooms, strip, shower, dry and out of there once dressed, I don’t do this walking around shit,
It depends on the person. Lots of people who played sports took showers together after for the short time allowed. Rarely does anyone gets naked because they are showing off their bodies. Most just aren't embarrassed to change in front of the same sex. So they aren't gonna go through the extra trouble you go through in order to hide your lady parts.
And I am one who was self conscious about getting naked in front of other girls. But I got over it.
No that doesn't bother me. There was a time in high-school were I got bullied for openly getting naked in the locker room while all the other girls took turns changing in the bathroom. I didn't have the time or care to do that...
As a adult I've never had a issue with this tho. The gym/pool in my neighborhood is open showers and no grown woman hides their body there.
I don't give a shit unless they a flapping their parts in my face. If they are just going about their business like I am, then who cares.
If you don't like it.. don't go... seems pretty simple.
If you feel like going to the gym is beneficial, and worth seeing a few naked bodies (oh my god!) then you have to accept what goes with that. If you want a private gym, build one.
I'm rather against it but it depends how it's done... if someone stays in their little corner and quickly changes it doesn't bother me. I'm not going to look around the changing room, I focus on myself. If someone is walking around like that and it's hard to ignore or not see it, I'd be uncomfortable. Thankfully I barely ever see that.
I don't remember any guys taking showers at all back in High school. The military was forced to shower together and it wasn't anything but business to get the petty officers to stop yelling at us. Gym wise, I just went home to do that sort of business. The locker room was used only for holding my wallet and shit.
I have a home gym now, so fuck that kind of bullshit.
After I finish my workout I completely undress to take a shower. But I always have a towel covering my private parts. Maybe from now on, I'll wrap the towel completely around myself so that my butt is covered too. I didn't realize it bothered people. When I do see people walking completely nude I don't think much of it. Why would I?
I’ve worked out in gyms for many many years and worked at two of them for a number of years so I’m used to seeing naked people.
and I’m fine changing or showering in em neither I or anyone else gives it a second thought.
and the gym I work out at now the showers are in individual stalls anyway so you have privacy. Though the first one I was at was just a room with shower heads, no privacy.
Nah. It's only skin and everybody already knows what you've got and what, generally, it looks like. Just don't pay any attention to any of them. Be glad you're not a guy in a male locker room! At least in high school, they razz the living shit out of ya!
I don't mind it. locker rooms are for changing and it's unnecessarily hard to change while trying to hide in the middle of a room full of people. Just don't do the thing where you put one foot on the bench, and let it all hang out there, while you're having a chat without uncomfortable friend. Just do your thing and get out.
I like showing off my privates, but not in a locker room context. It's all biz in the locker room, but I'm not shy and hiding either.
I will say though that I prefer to use rec facilities at off peek hours. I can only handle so many waggling flaccid weiners in my day.
I'm bi so didn't bother me but I caught a couple guys in the shower at the gym once, one was sucking the other. I kinda watched a bit and ended up hookin up with one of them outside the gym for a little bit after.
I'm kinda afraid to be naked in there, I at least keep my underwear on, but yeah, kinda expect to see some here and there.
I would be weirded out. Haven't used the showers at the gym I go to yet but, still would do it if I felt the need. I noticed those showers stay empty anyway so. How I picture my first time in there is we all turn around and meet in the middle for a dual, and make it an awkward thing every week. Some of them turn out gay and break off out of the group because they jizzed during a dual and scared the shit out of everyone. It they all turn out gay I'm respectfully out.
We need to stop hating ourselves and our bodies by hating other people and their bodies! The human body is beautiful and nudity is beautiful why are people so offended by nudity? We were all born that way! Until religion came along and made it a sin and made everyone hate themselves and everyone else and get disgusted and offended by the bodies they were born with!!
@vald9inches I don't completely disagree with you here. The only difference I can see in the original question is no one has to want to see anyone naked. That doesn't mean everyone hates their bodies or others bodies but rather not strangers flaunt themselves while they're trying to get showered or change clothes.
This definitely happens in locker rooms at times and it can be uncomfortable. I don't at all have a problem with nudity but some guys in locker rooms are trying to put themselves on display and I find that completely annoying, childish, and borderline forcing behavior not welcomed by others.
For ex a stranger staring at my penis while I dry off asking what I'm doing later is annoying. Yes that's happened once and I don't think that's the time and place to ask another fellow out lol.
I don't have any issue with nudity in the locker room. That's what they're there for. If not for nudity being acceptable why would changing rooms be gender segregated?
I would never shower with or near people because that's embarrassing for me. If I see a girl walking around like that, I wouldn't really care except maybe I'd wonder how she's so comfortable with showing her body and not feeling embarrassed.
Why even go in the locker room if you aren't ok with seeing strangers naked? You have to take off your clothes to shower. That's what locker rooms are for. If you don't want to see naked people, don't change your clothes or shower at the gym. You aren't required to go in the locker rooms at all.
If someone isn't even trying to hide it, and just be there in front of my eye.. butt naked, then it bothers me.
Luckily it's only a couple of people who do this, so it's easy to turn away when you see them.. after the first unfortunate encounter... 😂
I don't really care if other girls see my naked body. We all have the same parts so I don't know why it should matter. I'm just living my life and minding my own business.
Honestly, being naked in a shower dressing room at the gym doesn't bother me at all. Having other woman being naked doesn't bother me either. I'm not phobic about that.
I say that yea... I don't really like it. But it is just part of being in a locker room. Should be a space where people are able to get ready and get dressed and shower and do whatever it is that they need to do
Old guys in the mens locker rooms are the worst about this. Some of them want to get in these long ass conversations when they are butt naked. I don’t think they are always necessarily homo but still it’s just gross.
Sometimes I have to be naked when I am toweling off and need to get in my locker after a shower. But never longer than necessary and I don’t start any unnecessary conversations with people. Most of the time I shower at home after a workout anyway.
not a problem. I played volleyball and soccer in high school and we took showers together. We had an old school so there were no indepentant shower stalls. We often washed one another's backs or hair in the shower so It would be no problem for me.
It may sound a bit weird, but I'm a bit uncomfortable seeing or being seen by other women, but if the locker room is full of guys, I'm all in, I won't even wrap myself in a towel.
I’m the same way. I’ll have to show my privates to women sometimes.
No I don't think it is. Nudity doesn't bother me, every one has a body, and all out parts are more or less the same. Nudity isn't inherently wrong, immoral, or sexual. I think the bigger issue here is why it makes you so uncomfortable.
I assume you're talking about a female-only or male-only locker rooms here. If so, why would I as a guy care what the other guys do? I just don't look at them. It's not like it's offensive or something. If I don't want other people seeing me naked than I just do what you do and wear towel. But why would I care what other guys do? That's a serious question. Help me out here.
It’s not a big deal for me, I see naked people all the time at the nude beach I go to, so seeing naked people in my gym lookers don’t bother me
I don’t see the issue. You get more comfortable with your body as you age. It’s normal. Women might take longer because they care more about that but men just don’t care.
In a locker room with a bunch of people one doesn’t know… I guess what I’m trying to say is I definitely don’t walk around naked in a locker room. I guess I haven’t paid that much attention to what the other people are doing, I mean maybe they are but I haven’t noticed it that much. I frequent the locker room at the pool more than a locker room at a gym so there might be a different group of people. Either way, I believe it is courteous
it is courteous (not common courtesy) to not walk around naked.
I’ve never seen a naked woman in the gym locker room, even when I used the sauna, I had towels covering my body, I’m not sure nudity is even legal there.
No.. that’s what they are for. Shower Towel air dry. I’ve been in them since 6th grade through university sports…. Want to wear clothes then go into the gym or pitch. It’s not your personal bath…
Kind of annoying. That's why I always shower at home afterwards.
It doesn’t bother me because all of us guys have penises and scrotums. All I do is change with the other guys and shower later. If I’m going somewhere else in the locker room, I want to at least have a towel wrapped around me or in my undies.
I stood in front of the mirror naked in the locker room at the gym and blow dryed my hair.
My hair is quite long so it takes a minute or two
Bro I wouldn't even shower at the locker rooms, I'd go home and shower, this wouldn't be a problem for me
I try to cover up as much as I can, but it doesn’t bother me. There’s always a brief moment when I’m standing there naked
You have to expect people to be openly naked inside of a locker room. Regardless, it never bothered me, much less annoyed me.
Never bothered me, I also don't mind being naked in there. I have no problem with my own or others nakedness.
Well i do not bother to cover up i mean whats the point... but hey leave me in boys room n i would love to be around talking to them like that lol
In the locker room? I don't really care one way or the other.
@LilyoftheLake do girls often walk around naked in the locker room?
@MarkyMark77 I mean, sometimes. Usually it's in various forms of undress, not strict nudity.
@LilyoftheLake ever catch urself looking a little just out of curiosity at least lol?
@MarkyMark77 Lol of course.
@LilyoftheLake lol u prefer checking out their ass or boobs more?
@MarkyMark77 "Prefer?" I'm neither boobs nor butt, so neither really
But don't you expose your breasts when you take the towel off to put on your bra? Does that make you self conscious or are you okay with that?
It depends on there is doing your business or flaunting about. For those merely going about their way I have no problem!
Yes because the person walking around does not care if anyone else feels comfortable or not
I bet it is the Americans who are all upset.
Haha!!!
I wouldn't mind. Well... So long as nobody's walking around with a boner & making eye contact...
Everyone has basically the same body parts. If you've seen one naked man or woman you've seen them all. I'm comfortable being naked around others. I guess that's because I grew up in a nudist family
I did wrestling in high school we all showered at the same time so I don't care.
I keep my briefs on though usually.
I don't really care that other men walk around naked. I don't look at it so as long as they don't swing their dick in my face I'm fine.
Nope, its the normal to expect naked people in a locker room or maybe its just the guy's that have no problem with nudity in locker rooms.
I do not even pay any attention to it. You are bound to see some nakedness in he locker room,
Here in Finland, even Saunas are places where men and women go naked. In our culture nudity in locker rooms is not viewed as sexual.
The only people who annoy me are those old fellas who bend over to put their socks on before putting on some underwear.
I don’t really care if someone does. I just don’t look.
I like my privates being shown. The naked body isn't anything sexual, unless someone makes it that way...
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