What do women look for a guy for a first impression? Or is it solely based on looks?

[nomadme]

[mandyfire98]

I mean your immediate first impression of anyone is looking at them. So looks are the very first thing someone notices.

[nomadme]

So, someone approaches you and your first impression of them would be on how they look?

[mandyfire98]

Yes because it's all I can see.

[nomadme]

That sounds of lack of perception, but maybe I am wrong.

[mandyfire98]

So if I see a guy walking up to me I should be able to magically see his personality?

[mandyfire98]

Even if he hasn't even spoken a word?

[nomadme]

Did I not say approach? They wouldn't be posing like its a photoshoot, do they?

[mandyfire98]

Approaching doesn't necessarily mean talking yet. Approaching can just mean he's walking over to me. But even still, how am I supposed to know a guy's personality really when he has just walked up and said only a little. That normally comes during the first date. That's why you date to get to know somebody. It's not like if you said to me hey, how are you and introduced yourself I'm going to think "he's definitely a keeper"

What do you think a girl should think whenever you first approach them and introduce yourself?

[nomadme]

I don't know what a girl should think, I am not in a place to decide that, surely. But, I think when someone approaches and keeps an attractive presence with whatever few words they can spin together, that's all it takes.

[LazerBean]

Looks, demeo, and attitude.

[LazerBean]

Demeanor*

[Anonymous]

A feeling of chemistry on some level.

[nomadme]

Is that how you found your current boyfriend?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes if it's not there somehow when you meet it won't appear by magic later. If you sit there and can't think of anything to talk about after 5 minutes then there's nothing there.

[nomadme]

It doesn't mean chemistry guarantees success, does it?

[Opinion Owner]

No nothing does.

[nomadme]

I wish your thing lasts then.