What do girls notice first about a guy and why is it important? (based on looks)?

[Anonymous]

[PrettyPriya]

His height and penis size, of course! Is that what you wanted to hear? I’m thinking so since you guys seem to be obsessed with those two things. Do a search of the site using the magnifying glass at the top of the page for either of those two subjects and you will see what I mean.

MOST girls don’t see looks as the first thing. We see and look for other things first if you are talking about dating. Personality is number one for me. You can be the most handsome man on the planet. If you have a rubbish personality, not going to give to a second thought.

So, you can see that it is not looks that are the most important thing but character.

[Asker]

I only asked the question, I only want to hear what all the ladies think. In my opinion looks shouldn't be the only thing judged but also personality, style, morality, ETC.

[Suns_set]

First impressions include, height, eyes, hygiene, physical health, body language etc. Some women don't care, they look past that. Others that say they truly don't care, they're lying. Looks do matter when you first meet someone, the main issue is when they finally get to know the guy, but his personality is crap. So basically, a guys personality and charm.

Other first impressions include Originality, such as clothes, personality, etc. Like, not trying to be someone else or something they're not. It's very obvious.

Confidence, personality, and charm would come after physical impressions in my opinion.

[Asker]

I'm tall and I workout a lot and I think i'm like a 7 or 8 out of 10 but i'll definitely say my personality is lacking not in that i'm a bad person. I'm honest and try to do the right thing by people generally but i'm blunt extremely shy and sometimes a little overbearing.

[Suns_set]

I guess, for you, you could learn tactfulness, which is a social skill that can be somewhat seen as welcoming. It makes a person seem more welcoming when they are considerate or thoughtful.
But you don't have to be a certain way for women to like you, when the right girl comes along, you will know and she would too. You don't have to change the way you are if you like the way you are.
There are women out there who are actually attracted to men who are quiet, blunt and physically attractive.
Also, why do people think you are overbearing?

[Asker]

In lots of situations like driving or certain procedures at work etc. I think stress is the cause because when i'm not i'm mostly relaxed. People say i'm "wound up".

[Suns_set]

Maybe you seem intimidating when you're stressed. I guess, in my opinion, men who look "wound up" can come off as intimidating, dominant, or aggressive to a woman.
Sometimes women won't approach a man even though they are interested. You should try talking to women you find attractive and see how they react to you.

[Guy13]

Looks and how tight your appearance is. If they detect disheveled or sloppy then often, “slob and probably can’t finish anything”…. “OCD” appearance including nails is paramount. “If you can’t accomplish these little things then there’s no chance on the big things…”

[Heolurt]

In my experience it's the face then the body and what the guy is wearing, but if you have an ugly face nothing else matters because they've already rejected you.

[laraWM]

Eyes and look, it tells a lot about a guy

[Asker]

can you elaborate?

[laraWM]

You can see the mind through it 😁

[Asker]

Oh no 😵

[boobliker]

they talk about everything about us

[Anonymous]

His clothes and his hair.

[Asker]

what clothing and hair styles/attributes do you like on guys?

[ProVox]

I have great hair 😊