What first matters to girls for dating : look of a guy or overall personality?

[Anonymous]

look matters first.

look matters but his personality matters first.

Will like to date with an average looking guy provided there is a good wavelength matching.

[SueShe]

If I was into dating or even looking for a partner, he should have a number of qualities. To me, the most important things about a person, regardless whether this person is to date, to talk to or just to be with are:

- Character
- Intellect
- Personality
- Charisma
- Responsible
- Humor
- Caring
- Open mind
- Being respectful of others, animals and nature
- Not selfish
- Altruism
- Honesty
- Humble
- Generosity
- Simplicity
- Kindness
- Smart
- Empathy
- Positive attitude
- Assertiveness
- Body hygiene

That about summarizes what I seek in another person. I know that will be difficult, but I can still hope, no?

What I am not interested the least are looks, cult of the personality, physique, height, weight and for those that are so worried about that small detail, the size of their penile appendage. That is totally not relevant to me.

[_Maya_]

I voted the second option. Looks definitely matter. I have the be attracted to the person but personality matters far more. A really good looking dude can also be a total a-hole just as much as a beautiful woman can be a complete bitch. That's just the way things are. I'm not going to date a great looking person with a shit personality and attitude. So that comes first and then the looks. I'd rather have someone with a great personality instead of dealing with a dud in the long term. That would get annoying and old really quickly. Plus looks fade with age and if I want to be with a certain person the rest of my life the personality at age 70 or whatever is going to shine. Looks not as much.

[Nikki1989]

Looks matter for maybe a minute. From there on it is all about the personality and the chemistry we have together.

[PeachyPie93]

I go for looks because guys are assholes even the uglies LOL

[butterly248]

Personality