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Girls, What is the first thing girls look for in guys?

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    Xper 7 Age: 50 , mho 66%
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    #1 Your Face ~ You really need good grooming habits.

    #2 Your Smile

    #3 Your Silhouette ~ Broad strong shoulders, muscular arms

    #4 Your Style ~ Well-fitting clothing that are clean and well maintained (not stretched out, holey, faded, worn out. Don't wear your pants around your thighs, letting your underweared ass hang out.)

    #5 Your Manners ~ Manners matter to women, we want to date a well-put-together, well-mannered man. (DON'T talk with food in your mouth, DON'T chew with your mouth open, DON'T pick your nose.) Most of us still like you to open the door for us, pull our chairs out, help us put on our coats, or wrap on. Manners are free, we adore men who not only have them but use them.

    #6 Your Hands ~ Always wash your hands and take care of your nails (Clean, trimmed, and smooth) before a date or event. Even better, build it into your daily routine.

    #7 Your Fragrance ~ Whether you prefer the all natural scent or you use cologne, make sure you smell good. If you prefer the all natural make sure that you use a good smelling soap and make sure that whatever deoderant you use works not only to keep the odor away, but that it also makes you smell good. If you are going to wear cologne, make sure that it works with your body chemistry and smells great on you, and that you wear different ones so that you don't become nose-blind to them. Get into the habit of routinely wearing a fragrance.

    #8 Your Voice & Language ~ Expand your knowledge and vocabulary. Set yourself apart from guys who always talk like they're at a football game. You're aiming to show women you're relatable, that there is no ‘intellectual barrier' between the two of you. How enthusiastic you sound and whether you say “No” or “I've heard of that” when she mentions a topic – all these factors come into play.

    #9 Your Body Language ~ Avoid any closed-off, negative or aggressive gestures that can catch a lady off guard. Particularly if a woman is getting to know you, even a subtle finger wag or angled neck can make the wrong first impression. Remind yourself every now and then to keep your arms unfolded. (TIP: Do NOT clench your fists in front of a woman (as if you're about to punch someone!) You're probably stronger than her – so why make yourself more intimidating?

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  • Bethany22
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    I look for emotional intelligence. It doesn't necessarily have to be high. Even just a hint of it can be enough to get my hopes up for more. But when that guy with just a hint of it lets me down, the guy with a higher level of EQ will start getting my full attention.

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  • Simslover92
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    Master Age: 34 , mho 38%
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    1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Kindness. I'll never forget the first thing my boyfriend did for me and that was open up his umbrella for us to share while it rained. This was when we first met.

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  • Lara_Croft
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    Is he saved. Does he believe in Jesus and strive to be more like him. That's the first thing

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  • Jazzy54
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    For me, I’m looking to see if he’s smart. Looks alone don’t do it for me. A guy can be good looking, but dumb as rocks.

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  • EmmaMary
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    Personality, Confidence, Assertiveness along with Personal Hygiene.

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  • Janie22332
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    Maturity and being able to handle difficult situations without having a meltdown.

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  • Anonymous
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    I look for a calm guy who is not afraid to communicate and is straightforward.

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  • Nikki1989
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    Mentor Age: 36 , mho 30%
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    Personality, confidence and good hygiene.

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  • Jasmin01
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    Xper 6 Age: 21 , mho 53%
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    Is he polite and nice.

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  • Sasha0426
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    I don’t look for anything

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  • Ms_Facesitter
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    If we get along or not.

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  • sage2021
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    892 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    His looks

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  • Lfkttjt
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    Money

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