Girls, if you grew up with brothers, how did you manage to stay feminine?

[Anonymous]

Generally, girls who grow up with brothers, tend to be more masculine than feminine, so, for those who remained feminine, what was it that did it?

[MayMai3]

My mother always made sure I acted “lady like”, although I can still have masculine moments. But for the most part, it was her telling me all of those little things that made me stay feminine despite having brothers.

[Asker]

So had you not had a mother, you likely would have been very masculine the rest of your life

[MayMai3]

Honestly it really depends because outside things can influence how feminine someone is too. Such as media and what not. But, sure. I guess not having a mother figure probably would have influenced how masculine I would be.

[Asker]

Do you think you would have been influenced by outside things, like peer pressure, then?

[MayMai3]

Definitely. Especially at school!

[Asker]

So you really did just want to be feminine over all

[xtrema]

Well my mom always correct me and I came up pretty feminine and also because I admire very feminine women

[Asker]

how did you get into doing that though, which so much testosterone around

[xtrema]

Well I listened a lot music at first that my brothers listened , mostly rock , and then I don't know how , maybe thanks to school, tv or friends I started listening to different kind of music , I liked a lot Britney spears and Madonna, Coco Chanel , it's because of other external influences

[Asker]

So, you gave in to peer pressure at school?

[Asker]

and bought in to the ads on tv

[xtrema]

No there was no peer pressure, just musical influences

[Asker]

which is usually brought upon by peer pressure

[xtrema]

No , I just heard what they heard and I like it , who doesn't like Britney spears or Madonna

[xtrema]

I never gave a fuck about what they thought of my taste of music

[Asker]

thats def. peer pressure. you didn't HAVE to listen to pop music

[Asker]

yet you listened to pop music, and became feminine

[tiajoka]

Dude stop protecting on her.

[Asker]

@tiajoka protecting?

[tiajoka]

Projecting *

[Asker]

hahaah

except how could i be, im not a woman

[tiajoka]

But you are an idiot it seems