Am I wrong for feeling hurt about what my friend did (below in details)?

[Tinytina09]

I was thinking about this recently: I was raped a few years ago in college and I was very depressed about it. I told my best friend who’s Christian and she expressed her sympathy but really quickly in the conversation changed it over to herself and says something along the lines of omg by the way! I just got engaged! And sent me a picture of her ring and everything.
of course I’m happy for my friends and want them to succeed but I was clearly not emotionally available to celebrate for her.
Is she a bad friend or am I overthinking this?

[Cocochoh]

Hahahahaha aaaaahahaha!!!
Yeah, you need new friends.
Funny cause people like that pretend to care to upper most. Lure you in, say right things, then boom! Change subject.
Why?
Not used to caring bout others on deep level can only talk bout what they know. Got some that'll just straight up cry with you bout some how make it about them later. Like wha the fu- huh?

[Sparkie460]

She could either be self centered or she was trying to take your mind off of your depression. If she always turns things back to herself then she's self centered.

[Tinytina09]

Well she doesn’t believe in sex before marriage so I don't know if she felt that I was tainted or something but whatever.
I just thought that was a strange pivot.
I wouldn’t do that if a friend told me she went through something that tragic

[Sparkie460]

No I wouldn't either. It seemed like you needed to get it off your chest but she flipped it back to herself. I would have let you talk about it

[Tinytina09]

Yeah most people I talk to don’t seem to like her very much. She is insanely religious and rubs her beliefs in others. Thinks like everyone needs to be “saved”

[Sparkie460]

So she's high on herself. Her and I wouldn't get along well at all.

[Tinytina09]

I respect her and her views but anyway I still think she should have been a little more caring after I said I was raped. That was so awkward and like I said I wasn’t emotionally like available to really show it

[Sparkie460]

Yes she should have been more caring towards you. I'm really sorry you went through that. No woman should experience that. I hope the guy/guys are behind bars.

[Tinytina09]

No he was never prosecuted. He’s still working and an active member of the population

[Sparkie460]

Why wasn't he prosecuted?

[Tinytina09]

The whole system around prosecuting rapists is fucked up. Basically lack of evidence even though I submitted an entire rape kit and submitted a police report. Very few rapists actually go behind bars.
You might as well video tape it because the police are assholes and favor the rapist. They asked me dumb questions like “why didn’t you run away” or “are you sure you were raped?” Like it’s pretty sad.

[Tinytina09]

I had to give away my bra, underwear, favorite dress, tights, heels. They collect samples off of it but I guess they didn’t find a trace of his dna which is shocking.
I even had to take a picture of my nipple which had a bite mark on it. If he buzzed my drink it was out of my system too within 24 hours.

[Sparkie460]

I'd like to have you point him out to me and I'll prosecute him myself after I take him fishing in the shark infested waters.