He says he hooks up and finds majority of the girls through Instagram. Ladies, would you say it’s easier for him to get girls if he’s got “Internet-clout” or a verified badge?
Are girls more inclined to like a guy or give him a shot based off of his social media presence?
Girls, can you explain how you would feel if some average looking guy with a bunch of followers and a verified badge cold slid in the DMs with you?
It completely depends on the person. I would say that most women would expect (and maybe even prefer) their man to have less of a presence than they do. This is relative, where she might post once a week, and might expect his social feed to be active once a month, or she posts once every 4 months and expects him to like his 'happy birthday' posts from relatives.
If course, the one exception to this night be girls interested or wctively pursuing an 'influencer' type lifestyle, where if he has more followers it's mixed with 'professional success or attractiveness.'
I can't speak about social status, but I think it's weird for a girl who posts everyday to be with a boy who never posts ever, or vice versa. People start fights over stuff like this, because it shows how open you are with your life, what you do in your spare time, and who you spend it with. It's all relative and folks just have to agree on what's enough or not enough.