Why do boy children push mother's away when she tries to hug him?

[Anonymous]

I have seen boys say no to hugs from. Mum why?

She should give him space to develop

It's annoying when they do it because the same women must clothes, educate and put a roof over their little heads and food in their little plates

Let us leave the boys to grow mature and develop, can we do that?

[Blackcosmo]

Well that's actually very normal especially when they're getting out of their little kid phase. To them hugging their parents is like being babyish or something but they're not trying to be offensive. They just need some time to mature and develop.

Sometimes the girls do that with their dad too but it can also be both parents for the kids. Just more likely towards the parent of the opposite sex.

[Asker]

Women don't show interest in Sons as theyxo with daughters

[elizamichale1]

Thankfully my boys do not do it n just love to cuddle me

[Asker]

Because of the whole Gender dissapointment things boys aren't Very happy with mother's as of recently lol😜

[Asker]

Some are pissed at their mom's 😜😆😂

[elizamichale1]

Well i breastfeed my boys n i think this decision will also help our boys keep this bond with me

[Asker]

You're a good mother

[elizamichale1]

Thanks but it was my brother who pushed me to take this decision n thanks to him my boys r i think most healthy in their class n just love me so dearly

[Asker]

Do you like love em back?😜😆😂

[elizamichale1]

Ofcourse i do they are my sons

[Asker]

Wlthis Gender dissapointment really shook things up bad between sons and mothers
And women refuses to acknowledge the problem or correct it

[elizamichale1]

Well if tht ever happened with my boys i will instantly do whatever it takes to get things back on track
N my kids are not toddlers they r twin boys aged over 5 now

[Asker]

Gender dissapointment videos are all over the internet
And women don't realise that their children go on YouTube and see those videos forming their little opinion and coming back with his own little 8-12 year old conclusion
You have women saying
" I was Devestated to hear that it wasn't a girl"
Or " I cried for crying"
Those words don't sit well with eleven year old boys
He will think that he is a mistake

[elizamichale1]

Well they r stupid tbh
I m proud of my sons n i tell them all the times

[Asker]

It doesn't matter if he is 2,5or 12
Gender dissapointment hurts children of either age group and either Sex/Gender etc.

[elizamichale1]

I agree with that

[Asker]

Bottom line is whatever hurts a girl child hurts the boy too.
Just because males have different ways todeal with it than females don't mean that he doesn't feel it.
If Gender dissapointment hurts a girl it will hurt the boys too
Please don't be like those Parents that ignore this

[elizamichale1]

Oh no i m not n i will never be
I m raised with 2 brothers n my parents always treated us all the same n so do i with my boys

[Asker]

Our main priority now is Fixing this Issue about the Gender dissapointment Topic and try to win boys back (to their mothers)
Because it has affected the mither-Son spectrum, we need to reel the boys back in

[elizamichale1]

Absolutely n i will be happy to help if u need me for this

[Asker]

This gender dissapointment thing has caused a huge Gap between women and their Sons.
And Feminism doesn't make it any better

[elizamichale1]

Well feminism has actually destroyed a lot than doing any good

[Asker]

I could say talk to them
But we don't know the situation at the each kids household
Some children go through a lot and would shun family topics as a way to protect themselves
So talking about that won't help

[elizamichale1]

Well i m available to talk if u hav anyone in need of support n if i come across someone who needs more than talking i wouldn't mind tht either

[Asker]

Thanks☺️

[Asker]

I think the what created the confusion was Feminism combination with Gender dissapointment
If the two are combined it creates The wrong message

[elizamichale1]

Yup agreed

[Guy13]

Boys are naturally independent. Mothers are not often willing to let them grow up.

[Shamalien]

Because the relationship between mother and son has been destroyed