She keeps messaging me first but she sucks at holding a convo, what do I do?

[Deserter]

[Jakelyr]

if she keeps messaging you, that usually means she's into you. like many people she's probably kicking herself trying to think of what she should actually be talking about. or she's one of those ditzy girls who just likes to say hey all the time.

if it's the first and you think you might like her back, you could trying bringing up her interests. get her talking about something she's familiar with to open her up, then you can move over to things you're interested in so you can start getting to know each other.

just don't only talk about what she likes, that's how friend zones happen

[Wubs3000]

If you don't have chemistry no reason to go further. You at least need to click well and be able to have conversation and enjoy each others company

[Juxtapose]

Do this ^^

[Jamie05rhs]

Flip the script. Introduce your own ideas.

[Deserter]

I am, she gives me like nothing back

[Jamie05rhs]

@Deserter Then drop her. Let her rot.

[Anonymous]

Try talking on the phone or video chatting. Some people are just bad at texting.

[Deserter]

She's too shy

[scott04sa22]

If she’s too hard to communicate find someone else

[BarryLiverstone]

Mirror the length of what she says

[Anonymous]

Try to be patient.

[Anonymous]

Be more interesting.

[Juxtapose]

If you initiate a conversation and expect the other person to hold it for you then fuck you.

[Deserter]

I fucking am, idiot

[In_Trance]

block her