What does it mean when a girl refuses to send you a picture of herself?

[Anonymous]

I sent a woman a picture of myself, and when I asked her for one, she told me that I should just look at her iMessage contact picture.

She was just feeling lazy

She's not interested in you...

She was feeling shy

[D_Bone_Steak]

"She" is really a big fat guy with a scruffy neck beard, that's been using pictures he pulled of some girl off the internet. He has a limited amount of the pictures though so he doesn't want to just give them up until he's gotten your cock pics and jerked off to them.

[Autember]

I mean, that's her prerogative. If she doesn't want to send a picture then no big deal. If you haven't met her in person, I would personally be a little worried about a catfish... but maybe she just isn't comfortable doing that yet. Or she wasn't feeling herself that day. Who knows.

[Asker]

Yeah, I just don’t want her feeling uncomfortable. I’m not worried about her catfishing me.

[kylee2437]

Why pressure her for a picture? I’m not selfie ready all the time and one shouldn’t feel pressured to take selfies for your liking. I think it’s honestly weird as hell when guys ask for pics of me like that.

[Asker]

I wasn't pressuring her. She asked me for a photo, so then I asked for one. I didn't think it was a big deal.

[kylee2437]

That’s weird of her lol

[Asker]

Yeah. Tbf, I brought up that she hasn’t seen my face yet and then she asked. But it seemed a little strange to me that she wouldn’t send a pic after asking me to send one without any kind of prep.

[Guy13]

That means no... I'm not giving you a picture of me to possess. Go look and she told you. No is No...

[Asker]

Obviously "no" means no. That's not the question.

[Guy13]

You can't read very well

[Asker]

My ability to read is perfectly fine. The question I asked was not whether the answer she gave me was a "no." I know that the answer was "no." The question I asked was whether additional information could be gleened from the "no," and if so; what?

[Still-alive]

While i get that you shouldn't pressure her, just asking for a simple selfie and her refusing would give me some red flags. i would overlook it for now but just beware something may be a miss here

[Still-alive]

@downvoter im talking about catfish vibes if you didn’t get that

[Asker]

I actually don’t get any catfish vibes, but I totally get where you’re coming from! Thank you for sharing your thoughts

[Anonymous]

Lol. Catfishes don't like being put on the spot like that

[Anonymous]

it's really a guy or the bitch is married