Is it ok to call out fat and short women because they bodyshame men?

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If it is not ok then is it ok to call out fat and short men because they bodyshame women?

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

I’m not a fan of lowering myself to a lesser person’s level to make a point, anymore. But “eye for an eye” is in my nature and sometimes it gets the best of me. I try to be the better person more often than not. I am only human after all. Ell oh ell!
I’m absolutely convinced that the internet is to blame for most of the rude things people say and do to each other. When i was young, a persistent twat would eventually get smurfed up. If that didn’t cause a course correction, they’d get it again. And again if necessary. Eventually they learned the rule: “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.”. Now everyone hides behind a keyboard and faces no real consequences for being a dick. Consequences are the only things that actually keep people on the straight and narrow.

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

I notice that overweight women tend to feel some kind of entitlement, and you have ones who literally believe they're in a position to choose a guy or have a right to want a healthy, good-looking man in their lives. And the thing is, a lot of these types of women  know  they're overweight and unattractive, or both, and aren't trying to really do anything about it but believe they deserve an attractive man. Such a joke.

SoftCliff · Accepted Answer

It's never ok to bodyshame anyone, regardless of their gender. You're entitled to your own preferences as long as you keep your opinion to yourself. Unless someone insults you, then I suppose you could say something back to them (although it's kinda petty and childish in my opinion to stoop down to their level)

1GoldTwins · Accepted Answer

Who ever is bodyshaming should be okay with being bodyshamed as well.

SixFootSexy · Answer

We live in a shameless society. Telling women they are fat won't work unless you have a connection with them already, then you're just being rude. Women receive all sorts of body positive reinforcement from media and other women. In the US close to 70% of adults are overweight or obese, coupled with a sedentary lifestyle and poor food choices. It's much easier to sell healthcare and psych meds to people killing themselves slowly than to get in shape slowly.

https://www.cdc.gov/obesity/data/adult.html

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I like short women. Calling out anyone is just crass and unnecessary unless they're trying to put you on blast first.

Like trannys trying to say there is something wrong with a straight guy that doesn't want to fuck. Hell no, a tranny is a tranny and a girl is a girl! Now if some fat chick is calling me out for being 5'10" because she only likes 6'1" and above... you better believe I'll point out she's fat.

Otherwise, if I'm being left alone, I won't say shit about her. It's 100% okay to reject wanting my penis, but I don't need to be dissed or made fun of in that process of rejection. For people that try that shit with me, 1) Says something about your self-esteem to have to do that, and 2) play stupid games, you'll win stupid prizes... fuck around and find out.

MCheetah · Answer

Yup. Ideally, people would just be respectful, but since we know that isn't going to happen, it's 100% acceptable to call out ugly, short, or out-of-shape women when they call out men for being ugly, short, or out-of-shape. Women have been trying to live this double-standard for far too long and it's about time for some gender equality up in here!

Is it ok to call out fat and short women because they bodyshame men?

Ideally though, people should just be a little nicer, like I said. Don't have to be fake or anything, but there's a difference between constructive criticism (which I do) whenever someone asks you to rate them, and just being a jerk for the sake of it.

Anonymous · Answer

Short women aren’t unattractive just as long as they are fit and in shape. Petite in shape girls can be really cute.

But being overweight (rather short or tall) is unattractive on anyone. It’s also something you can control. It’s not easy to control but it can be done through sacrifice and effort.

So yes your right. There is this complete disgusting bs double standard. I remember years ago I met up with my ex girlfriend for an appetizer. She made a bunch of cunt comments about “remembering me for being taller” and “I look different”. She had gained weight herself and I was technically allowed to “say” anything about it. I should of called that bitch out.

Pinay_ako · Answer

No need for name calling just because someone called someone else whatever… It sounds childish, shallow, petty and immature. People will always have something mean to say even if you’re the most beautiful/handsome person in the world. Therefore, it’s NEVER ok.

Katie1964 · Answer

Is it ok to call out fat and short women because they bodyshame men? No its not and its not ok for them to do it to men.

If it is not ok then is it ok to call out fat and short men because they bodyshame women? See above.

If you don't have something nice to say, just don't say anything.

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

All fat people should be shamed and pushed into a healthier direction (if possible, some people are fat because of medical conditions). The issue with height is different, it stems from preference and not an actual health concern. The preference is valid but I'm not sure if height bodyshaming should be normalized. What do you think?

RiseofArtemis · Answer

Sure, we live in the era of equality if they can't take what they dish out then they shouldn't even say it in the first place. Equal lefts and rights.

Tommy789 · Answer

Absolutely not. All someone does when they speak negatively of how someone else looks is bring negative karma on theirselves. Besides, Short and Fat women have a beauty of their own. I remember a Girl in High School who was pretty but only on the outside, She would shame both girls and boys who did not look like a model in a magazine cover, then about a month went by and She was in a car accident which disfigured Her face and I believe it was Her karma catching up to Her.

Apple1996 · Answer

It's not okay to bodyshame anyone. If you don't like their body then look the other way

Anonymous · Answer

I try to be a reflection, a mirror to people. If a person don't like what I say it's probably because the are a very ugly person. I don't care if a person is physically attractive or physically ugly. It doesn't give you the right to destroy someone else.

RoulOB · Answer

It's not ok to offend in any ways. But fat and short It's just the reality, being fat isn't healty, and looks worst if short. So it should be a tip to get better.

DavidRaul · Answer

Well if i am doing the same as they do, we are on the same level. I can't really see myself on the same level as they are. I am better than them. I wouldn't dare to disrespect anyone because he/she is fat or short. Thats rude.

Subarugirl · Answer

Can I call you out for body shaming and cyber bullying?

VikingWarLord · Answer

People patting fatties on the back are basically guilty of murder.

They're saying it's okay to live an unheathy lifestyle just to not hurt their feelings. This is a huge epidemic and it needs to end gawdammit!

suzzieQ · Answer

No.… it sounds like your just using it as an excuse to be a jerk. Two wrongs don't make a right...

2facedfa1ry · Answer

you shouldn't be a dick to anyone for that but i mean technically if you can shit on one side you should be able to do it to the other one..

Anonymous · Answer

Are you tall or short? Many height questions over the past few days by you. Obvs bodyshaming is never good since it can demoralise another person since they are probs well aware of it. One can't change height. Andnas far as weight is concerned, who knows what they are going through.

dustybiker · Answer

I don’t like bullying of any sort. Big protective trigger for me. A shamer/blamer is really showing their own insecurities.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Shouldn't shame anyone. Influencing a healthier lifestyle in a nice way is what I do. I'll only share my knowledge too if the person is interested in being healthy.

loveslongnails · Answer

I'm really glad I don't associate with people who do this, so I don't have to call anyone out. Generally speaking, "People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones".

Anonymous · Answer

You can tactfully throw every insecurity she has at her without mentioning anything specific. If she calls someone out for their flaws, she deserves a reality check, but it doesn't have to be direct.

alice55 · Answer

You can call out everyone but don't bring their body into it, you're gonna pass for the bad person if you do

Th3ft · Answer

Well that is also body shaming… so do you take the same road and get revenge and do the same dirt bad movie or do you take the higher road?

Blackcosmo · Answer

If they're body shaming yes they can call them out.

exitseven · Answer

Why don't we just stop calling people names. Fat people know they are fat and short people know they are short. Give it a rest.

YollyM · Answer

It's not okay to bodyshame anyone whether they deserve it or don't

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Being short is not a negative, obesity is though.  Body shaming is a useless term, its too generalized to mean anything.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Call out? If you mean call out as in try to help them become healthier… sure. If it’s just because they bodyshamed me. I wouldn’t. I don’t stoop to people’s level like that

Chaser3232 · Answer

On many occasions, I’ve just said “ thanks for noticing and walked away”. There’s no need to stoop to their tactics.

kataang · Answer

It’s okay to call out anyone who’s body shaming.

ElementoP · Answer

I personally don't care about other people's bodies, or what other people say about them

Zolly99999 · Answer

It's never OK for anyone to bodyshame another person..

Stollje · Answer

No way, we are all unique and have good and bad qualities, it’s the inside that matters in the end

litty · Answer

What's the point of body shaming in the first place?

EnglishEuropean · Answer

Let's hear from the late Randy Newman:

blondfrog · Answer

Yes anyone who body shames should not be immune. You reap what you sow.

GoesbyAndrew · Answer

If it motivates them to be healthy, sure. I think calling out height is fucked up though.

Anonymous · Answer

Seems like when short people clap back it’s never actually except able. It shouldn’t be that way but in my experience no one likes it when short people defend themselves.

OddBeMe · Answer

Something about two wrongs… But if consequences aren't a bother, go ahead.

art84 · Answer

I would hate if it a women called me short. So no it isn't right for men to do that.

Alex8736 · Answer

It's definitely relevant especially if the person getting shamed is your friend or family member

maximumpower · Answer

Body shaming reflects negatively upon the shamer - period. Gender makes no difference.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't body shame anyone. I don't see why that's so hard...

whereismyjohnny · Answer

Bodyshaming is never okay.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

The feminist will hate this question

IceCreamSandwich · Answer

Thats not gonna help

Staximus · Answer

Nobody should be bodysurfing the other

Wise4myage · Answer

No, two wrongs don't make anything right.

convo_king89 · Answer

I don’t think bodyshameing men is a thing

Fuentes · Answer

It's fair game

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Then she says, “*scoff* I identify as SKINNY”

9inchestrong · Answer

Men get body shamed all the time.

CubaPirate · Answer

Try to play nice now everyone please

monkeynutts · Answer

Yeah if you want.

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