Why is she pulling away if she likes me?

[Anonymous]

So lately I have been dating a girl, all of a sudden she asked me what do you think this thing between us going? I told her that I'm looking for a relationship and she answered she is looking only for a friendship for now, So I pulled away completely for a couple of months and later we started seeing each other again and had oral sex which was fantastic only to find her pulling away all of a sudden and not replying to my texts, what do you think this is?

[SueShe]

Personally, I don't think much of this woman. If you are seeking friendship only, you never lower yourself to perform oral sex. This is the behavior of a person of no morals and little dignity (if at all).

Apparently, she was only interested in getting you where she wanted and now that she got it, she lost interest in you. Nothing out of the ordinary for such a person.

Originally, she was looking for friendship only but it seems that this friendship has turn sour. Now, she is no longer interested and your best bet would be to sever the contact as it is useless to continue something that has no hope to get a positive outcome.

I personally find it a shame that certain women have to act the way she did.

[Avicenna]

Some women are avoidant and try to sabotage potential relationships, usually for fear of getting hurt or "losing their freedom". I usually advise people in such situations to move on if they want something stable.

[Guy13]

She’s trying to control you only. She wants to do sexual acts for fun. She is not looking for a commitment. She has likely approached relationships in this manner before. Not good for a “relationship guy”

[Summeroflove]

Well some people start loosing interest unfortunately just talk to her and communicate. Some people get too scared to tell someone something firstly in fear of hurting their feelings, but at the end of the day things only get worse as time goes on.

Sometimes it just means it’s not meant to be and it’s better to end things on good terms and find someone whose a better fit. Sometimes people aren’t bad I’m sure you have gotten to know someone before who you intentionally really liked but as you got to know her you found she’s not really what you’re looking for.

[DeepRockGalactic]

She already said she wants a friendship so you will never get a relationship from her

[In_Trance]

Doesn't like you that much