She likes me. Why is she ignoring me?

[raider08]

Ok so me and this girl had been talking for a while. We talked on the phone for months and we started to like each other. So naturally we went on a date. It was awesome. We both had a great time. The next day we hung out again. Once again. Awesome time. I leave town for the week and we talked while I was gone. But when I get back it seems she wants nothing to do with me. She won't return my calls. She rarely returns my texts. What do I do?

But her ex-boyfriend did see us out together. And her parents made her breakup with him because he treated her like crap. Could this have something to do with it?

Any input would be great.

[tex151]

Are you sure she was into you like you were into her? So what if you texted her and every night that means nothing in fact its a bad thing, because while you are thinking she's into me she could be thinking yeah I like talking to him but just as a friend. Did you kiss her or have you kissed her? It' complicated but you have to understand that women don't like it when you talk to them all the time, sure if she's calls you then talk to her but if you keep calling her and texting her she going to go doesn't this guy have a life, why is always texting me I mean its fun but damn dude. Seems like to her you became needy and to much of a nice guy and women hate needy guys. So now the phone calls have stopped and the texting hmmm sounds to me like she found herself a new guy. So if I were you don't text her or call her for a couple days if she doesn't say anything to you, probably found a new guy, but if she does just be like oh sorry I've been busy. And then ask her on another date.

[raider08]

Hah well actually she would call me for no reason at random times just to say hey..and she would text me all the time..and yes we kissed.

[meh-bodo]

dude I think you should lay off the sweet guy stuff a bit, maybe you freaked her out by being a bit needy? try being a bit more casual for a while

[spacecadet7227]

um I think that maybe it was maybe a fling or something. It probably didn't have anything to do with her ex maybe she found someone new. A week is a year in love lol cheesy but true

[RyeLee]

From what you said, you guys seem very into each other! I would say that she is probably just busy.how long as it been since you've talked?

[raider08]

We were very into each other. We couldn't talk enough. but then something happened and I don't know what. Its been two weeks. I mean she will return maybe 1 out of my 10 texts but she won't return my calls. So iv kinda backed off to see what happens.

[RyeLee]

Yeah it is probably best to back off. I mean, as a girl, I usually wait for the guy to call me...especially when he is ignoring me. But in your case...that is hard because you need to pursue her, but you don't want to smother her. Do you think it is a possibility that she would play hard to get with you?

[raider08]

I mean its possible. I know that I don't need to bombard her..but then again I want her to know that I'm still here..and I mean I'm gonna wait for her. I'm gonna wait as long as it takes. until I get an answer. I like her so much. she is amazing. so I bought her something when I was in mexico so I was thinking about sending it to her with a note and a poem..cause I always wrote poems for her..so maybe that could re-spark her interests..what ya think?

[RyeLee]

I think that's a great idea. Life is too short to not show your true feelings. =]

[sheepingly]

I'd try and talk to her about it and be calm.only she can answer this.