Should I let it rest or tell him?

[aubsanderson]

there's this girl that keeps posting about me and the guy im talking to, she's saying he downgraded and that im ugly. But he keeps talking to me and apartently he doesn't like her but he is her #1 on her bsf list. She posts about how cute he is but i assume she's talking about him and me because they all relate to us. Should i tell him about my suspensions of her trying to get close with him or leave it

[Anonymous]

I see you posted this yesterday so I’m not sure if you’ve gone ahead and said something, but if you haven’t yet they I’d say leave it alone. For one, it’s extremely jealous and insecure of her to post what she’s posting on her social media. She’s doing it in hopes that it will draw him back to her, but anyone who is just not a hater in general will see how desperate she is for attention and so will he. I’m not sure what you’re on that it says he’s her best friend, but maybe take that with a grain of salt. I know on snap chat, I have this dude I used to talk to that will occasionally reach out to me on there, maybe once a month, but since I’m not active on there and don’t talk to others, it puts him as my best friend just by me responding with my 2-3 exchanges. Secondly, you said you guys are talking, so if you aren’t even dating yet then you don’t want to appear threatened by this woman, it’s just too soon and you want to be the unproblematic one. If you and him get a bit more serious then my hope is that he would delete or block her altogether, but you have to earn that place in his life. Third, I’m not sure how you’re seeing these posts, but if there’s a way for you to block her then I’d say do that. Be above petty, jealous shit, be confident in your appearance and stop worrying about an outcome you have no control over. If ultimately he chose her, then there’s nothing you can do about it, but you won’t help yourself by breathing life into that possibility. Focus on the present, and right now he is interested in you and she can’t stand it. So stop giving her attention, and work towards growing with this guy in a healthy way.

[Nathan25]

whats a bsf list

[slatyb]

Stop reading her posts.