I am not on any social media except GaG and if this social media you refer to has the same rules than this one, you need to reach a higher level before you can contact the person in question.
Now, as far as what to tell that person, it will obviously look suspicious (as it always does) when a person of the opposite gender contacts the other out of the blue without apparent reason.
Mainly in your age group, it is so obvious that the only reason why anyone would want to contact the other one is for the sole purpose of hoping to get intimate sooner or later. That is the exact purpose why contacting each other has been created.
Whether you tell that person you would want to become intimate or you tell her that you want to talk about the psychology of ants in the Alps makes no difference. We all know what the final aim of contacting the other person is.
Therefore, just go ahead and ask her if she wants to go out. Just remember to be a little diplomatic and not go straight to the intimate part.
Ok, so I am not on that social media site. I did a quick search and did find this:
https://help.instagram.com/1750528395229662
That might be of help regarding how to DM another user on that site. If you are asking should you DM her? Why not I guess? Just with any DMing a girl, be respectful and don't have expectations that are more than online friends.
Also, don't ask for nudes or other pornographic material. I am not saying that you are the type of person that would do that, but I can tell you from my experience here, there are plenty of guys that want to get us girls in DM and get nude photos.
She might be reluctant to return a DM for that reason I just mentioned. That is where the respectful part comes in. Much more likely to respond to a friendly hello and what's up than some request. Good luck to you.
Yes.. Of course u can
Why not? What is stopping you?
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