"im a guy like me"
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Overall this question is a joke but I would love to hear an honest response to the question, hit me with your best responses.
He got blocked after that lol. It means she wants she would lije to have all your qualities and personality in a guy she's attracted to/sees as a potential partner. You may have what she's looking for, but she only sees you in a platonic light ir as a friend/brother. Its the same with men, they could find a girl that checks every box, but if he's not into her/finds her attractive, or sees her as a sister, it's not going to change that. It is what it is.
Then why even say that. Itβs a back handed compliment.
A guy like you that maybe doesn't want to be just friends a wants a relationship. Is there something stopping the both of you from pursuing it as more than just friends
I take it as she likes you. Have you guys been flirtatious with each other?
In cases like this, sheβs dealing with men who are no good for her, hence why she says she would like a guy like you, sorry to say she wonβt go for you for a very long while just keeping you around until sheβs done dealing with the bad guys. My honest opinion, find yourself a girl who actually appreciates you and your time
She's telling you that you're hot, but too nice. You need to train her better. I like the fact that you called her a bitch and put her in her place. Now you just need to establish some rules, and punish her for breaking them. Ropes and whips have a way of changing people's minds.
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Hanging out with a 24 year old married woman. With her husbands permission. Weβre eating lunch, she looks at me and says βif I was going to have an affair it would be with someone exactly like you.β
my response: βhmm, where would you find him?β
aspergers strikes again!
She wants your personality in a guy she finds hot.
Bro not in the mood to hear a simps opinion sorry to burst your bubble @MTC29 and direct message me if u wanna know the actually story and have actual back story before reaching way to far π€£ goofy. Just to be clear I'm not talking to you @TacosRAwesome
Basically it means she likes you but just as a friend. It is possible however that sheβs only saying this cause she doesnβt wanna ruin the friendship.
I wrote a take on this years ago
What Did They Mean? Translating 5 Common Rejections
Basically, what she's saying is this
"I wish I could find a guy with your good qualities but none of your bad qualities, which, I'm sorry to say, far outweigh your good qualities to the point where I'm not attracted to you, whatsoever."
She wants the same qualities that you have, but in a guy who she's into.
You ain't that physically attractive to her is what it means. Or you're not her type in one way or another.
Don't sweat it. a woman finds 10 rules +1 where you don't fit into her dating prospect but forgets them all for someone else. Again, don't sweat it. You can't force making attraction. find a woman, who "forgets" all rules for you.
You have all the workings of her ideal man... Except the wrapper. You're the Aldi knockoff... Same nutrition... Probably just as delicious... You just don't have that name brand pretty package (she's too silly to realize that what she's looking for is going to cost her more, too). She's superficial. You deserve better.
She wants another dude that she things is character-wise also great plus that she is into
This is how women friend zone people. You have all the qualities she wants, you're just not the Chad she wants.. Meaning she wants to keep you on the back burner while she rides the cock carousel, and when she's in her thirties with multiple children by multiple men, she will be ready to settle for you.. Your best bet is to remove the thot from your life when she says stupid shit like that. Associate with better women.
She's for the streets.
Unless you're legit friends by your decision, She's telling you she doesn't want you at all.
There's a guy she has in mind that she wishes that was like you. I recommend you cut your losses with that woman.
Its a polite way of saying "please stop hitting on me, you're not my type". That's what goes through my head when I say that.
"I like you're personality, but I don't want to have sex with you."
They want a guy who is nice like you but who they want to have sex with.
She means a guy like you, but 6β 4β, drives a Porsche and hung like a bull.
Weak version of a come-on.
Not really committing, just playing to see if you'd be interested.
Another silly girl game.
She's saying she wants your personality in a package with bigger muscles and more money
she's letting you down meekly. lots of women do this
She wants someone who is like you, but not you.
She lacks courtesy or just plain awareness to know that isn't a compliment
Its women not knowing what they want... as usual
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