Probably a REALLLLY stupid question but I'm dumb when it comes to women, what does it mean when?

[Anonymous]

A girl starts a convo with you, and she's never met you before, not only in person, but, online. She just randomly messages you, and tries starting a convo. It didn't really go anywhere once she did, but, from my understanding is that it is UNCOMMON for a woman, to approach a man, first

[Guy13]

She found something attractive about you. Online is tough because people jump to conclusions, however, you are right. Rarely do women make first move because they do not have too in this world. Never know until meet in person. Try this for a better option as these people are real in front of you. Plenty of social and hobby groups in your zip code. www.meetup.com

[Guy13]

Good luck 🍀 with her….

[Anonymous]

usually girls are more confidence over the phone such as texting this is because the other party can’t see you to judge how u act , react , look and so on. So this gives us a false confidence which answers the question of why she might have messaged you first online. Simply put it’s easier and she won’t feel judged as she would have done if she had spoke to you first in person. As you can see her body language and how she looks and attitude but over the phone it can be faked and can be altered for the taste of the guy.

you can change who you are over the phone but in person, your eyes can’t deceive u.

hope this helps

[On_cloud_wine]

I don’t know about the majority, but I’m not shy to approach anyone..

[H9192]

Sounds like she just needs someone to kill her time from your story

[LupitaEee]

Wants to get to know you most likely

[Asker]

So, why did she approach me first. Like I said, I'm just under the impression that women don't approach men

[LupitaEee]

Not a lot of women make the first move but some do or maybe she has been wanting to get to know you and her friends encouraged her to reach out