Is she really a toxic person?

Helloeriss01
I had this history with a girl. She expressed many times that she cared about me. She would console me about some rude customer and be like “I care about you”. She was in charge at work but she wasn’t my boss. We would tease each other a lot too. She showed me a giant stuffed animal once and said it was the same size as me and I asked her if it was edible and she said “I know where your minds at”. I called her annoying once and she said she was gonna come over to my house late at night and sing me to sleep. She’s touched my shoulder and she’s given me a bear hug.

Earlier on she asked to ask me how I was doing a lot. Once she came up next to me and asked if everything was feeling ok. she even asked why I wasn’t talking to her.

I used to text him at work a lot and before I think she didn’t mind it. Although slowly I started to see it bother her. I used to call him at work which I agree was inappropriate but she used to get me in trouble a lot for it. Once it was late and the store was closed and I clocked out. Her and I didn’t talk much and I got on the phone with my boyfriend as we were heading out. I told him “I love you too” over the phone and she told me to hangup. I called him back when we were going out the door and she told me to hang up until we were completely out the store. I also saw her glare at me while talking to another female coworker and pull her away.


She’s left the job and I found out a lot about her. Apparently she goes out a lot and she might’ve done this when she still worked here but another coworker who she’s gone out with has said she always has to find a guy when she goes out. I heard she got wasted last week and made out and might’ve slept with a guy from the bar. I’m completely confused because she seemed like such a mature level headed person. Most of all if she was always going out and trying to find guys why was she still jealous of me talking to my boyfriend and tried to get me to not talk about him?
Is she really a toxic person?
2 Opinion