How do you know if you're a fuck up?

[Nacura]

I'm sorry to ask a bunch of strangers this question, but it's all I have left. I feel like everyone in my life looks at me like a fuck up. They never say it, at least not all of the say it, but I can tell in the way they talk to me... the way they look at me... I don't know what to do.

[Light909090]

Manipulate them to see you in a different light. Then you’ll be Seen differently in a better light and will
Be treated better. Everyone deserves to be Treated right so manipulate them to see you in a different light.

[Nacura]

Thank you

[Aerolyn]

Just think about the life you lived up to this point, you should be able to tell on your own.

[Nacura]

Ok. Thanks.

[Anonymous]

You ever seen the movie rounders? There's a line "if you can't spot the sucker at the table in your first 1/2 hr., then you are the sucker".

[Nacura]

Ya sorry. I dont understand that quote.

[Opinion Owner]

It means if you can't identify the weak link in a group (the sucker, or as you put it "f*** up"). Then you are the f*** up. But that's real simple to fix. Choose to not be it! First step is saying it to yourself, believing it and then achieving it. NO ONE decides your limits but you!

[Nacura]

Alright. That makes sense.

[Opinion Owner]

Cool. But remember that last part. "no one decides your limits but you".
Take care! 🙂

[TheFlak38]

If you have to ask this question then you can be sure you are.

[Nacura]

What makes you say that?

[JPresidente]

We’re all human and make mistakes. Chin up girl and don’t be so hard on yourself. 👍😊😉

[Anonymous]

You feel different but in a happy sort of way.

[Nacura]

I'm not sure if that's true.

[sheenagwapa]

what you should be doing is ignore them

[Nacura]

Even if it's your family?

[WhitneySnow]

I bet you’re not one

[Nacura]

But how does one know?

[WhitneySnow]

I guess if you make a lot of stupid decisions?

[Nacura]

Ok. I'm not so sure if I do.

[WhitneySnow]

You’re probably good 😊

[MrReliable12]

When you know, you know.