If a girl that knows I’m interested gets nervous or awkward when I’m around, is that a sure sign to not approach?

[Anonymous]

There is a girl that found out that I’m interested in her. She now avoids eye contact and when she sees me around she gets awkward and nervous. Months ago, I felt like she would hit on me often and send signals, now I guess I was wrong? Lol

[Sonoreti]

It could be both ways though. Either she likes you back and just doesn‘t know how to communicate that clearly, or she doesn't actually like you romantically and is feeling embarrased because she can't ouright say no.


I would say just ask her out directly one of these days. If it works- great. If it doesn't, you can't start liking someone new. Either way, you‘re not losing anything 👍

[Asker]

From what I know, she hasn’t had a real relationship before [23F] or hasn’t had much intimacy with anybody before cause she’s waiting for the “right” one. Nobody recalls the last guy she dated. I don’t think this matter right?

[Sonoreti]

The fact that she‘s inexperienced can be why she‘s feeling nervous and hesitant. My advice for you both is to just take things slowly, go out on a date and who knows what might happen. Just relax and do your best to enjoy your time together 😉

[rachel776]

you get at least one try but when she says go away then it's a sure sign not to approach.

[OlderAndWiser]

She may be self-conscious but eagerly awaiting your advance.