Girls, have you ever had a friend who puts you down? How did you deal with it?

[Anonymous]

Ladies, have you ever had "friends" who made sly or subtle digs at you; your appearance, your intelligence, your boyfriend, dating, etc. How did you deal with it? Do you think they were doing it intentionally and how did you know they were actually putting you down and you not just being too sensitive etc?

[justmeme]

I'm not sure I have (awful memory) however I am going to give you something to think about... how badly do you need these people in your life? Do they upset you and hurt your feelings? If I'm honest you don't deserve to be made to feel like shit about things in such a way by those who are meant to be friends. Sometimes it can be better for our own sanity and wellbeing to walk away from friendships because sometimes they can be toxic for us.

It sounds like they don't respect your choices if it is something they continuously do, if it's a one off then possibly you could give some benefit of the doubt but i have a feeling you wouldn't be writing this if it was. We have enough hate around in life, surround yourself with people who want to make you happy and if they don't like something aren't assholes about it

[dustybiker]

Friends don’t treat you that way. And, yes. It’s intentional. And stems from their own insecurities. Cut them lose.