Girls have you ever had a bromance or guys friend ruin your relationship?

[Anonymous]

The guy I been dating for 2 years has this friends who is obsessed with him he refuses to do his own thing without him and even is taking him away every weekend now and my boyfriend doesn't wanna see me cause of him he cares about what his friend thinks and tries to please him, this guy is messing my relationship up, he even involves himself in my relationship and talks to me rude telling me what I must do in my relationship and to leave my boyfriend alone, and he acts like my boyfriends girlfriend cooking for him and offering stuff and trying to get him away from me, he has not seen me for 2 weeks now because of this guy and yet he lives right next door to me so it's easy to see me but he doesn't, and he now wants a breakup till he is ready to be with me again, while he goes out with this guy whole time, yet this guy is the cause of all the problems in our relationship, I feel so frustrated I need help on trying to get this guy out of our lives for the best, cause I worked to hard in my relationship for 2 years now for this guy to take him away, please give me some advice?

[SueShe]

From your descriptive, I honestly think that you should not pursue this relation because of the fact that your boyfriend will prioritize his friend over you at any time.

The more you insist in trying to get your boyfriend away from his friend, the more likely it is that you are going to make an enemy with the friend and your boyfriend will listen to him and let himself be brainwashed.

There is no winning in cases like that. You will be an eternal second and the more you try to get priority over his friend, the more likely he will close like a shell to your pleas. Not only will you succeed in making feel uncomfortable but you will soon realize that he will slowly move away from you. That is the sad truth.

Don't make him chose you over the friend because you will definitely end up making two enemies, the one because he is not mature enough to chose you and the second because you attempt to ruin this bromance.

[Anonymous]

Barely have friends

[Asker]

He is abnormallt obsessed with him, he makes us feel bad even for wanting to spend time together, he just wants him all to himself not understanding that he has a relationship as important too I feel put last💔