I'm interested in this guy and all the time I'm around men. I have tons of guy friends and I work at a job that is mostly men. I have like one or two girl friends, I get along with girls but more likely get along with guys. The reason for me getting along with guys is because they most likely think im cute or wanna hook up. I don't want him to think the wrong idea that im slutty or flirty with other men.
lol so I think it’s best you listen to the men on this. The women who chimed in said no but I’m sure you already realized they’re not men. That’s like me answering a question about having a period as far as how it feels. The one who said just insecure men has no idea what she’s talking about. Men have feelings. That’s how they feel. Even if something to a man is an insecurity, so what that’s his insecurity just how women have a lot of insecurities as well. We don’t say women are insecure for wanting to date taller men or men who make a lot of money. But regardless. This isn’t an insecurity issue. As you pointed out it makes you look a certain way. Not only that the dude who you like may think you’re already involved w someone. It also could deter him from approaching you because maybe you’re never by yourself to get a chance to talk to you in private. Plus just knowing that the only reason these men are your friends is cause they want to hookup makes it seem like you just like that kind of attention. But yes it can raise red flags in men’s eyes.
Honestly, yes, it is. Because to me, I look at a woman with lots of guy friends and I wonder why she's not chilling with more women.
Just to be real, women are fun to chat with and such, but it's not like a group of guys gets more chill with women around. And the kinds of ladies who don't seem to have many female friends are the kinds that tend to start a lot of shit.
s Having guy friends is not a red flag. But it doesn’t sound like you have guy “friends”. It sounds like you knowingly keep guys around who are interested in you sexually/romantically. And that in itself is a red flag if you’re in a relationship.
Not at all. It is only an issue for insecure men who worry they can't keep you happy.
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You realize you completely contradicted yourself, right?
Yes because unless they are gay all those guy friends want to fuck you
Watch the episode of Frasier with Pete Sampras's wife on it, that's why we don't like girls with a lot of guy friends.
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