Is it a red flag if a guy has mostly females as friends?

[Anonymous]

Or should that not be taken into consideration when you start dating someone?

[NewsReader]

Tough to say. It could actually be a green flag. It could mean that girls feel safe and comfortable around him which means he treats them right. Not in a sexual way, but as person in general. 0What we don't know is if all those girls see him as just a "Friend" or more. If not, then he probably sleeps or has slept with all of them. Only you can tell since no one on this site has seen him. You can ask those girls what they think of that guy. Could be a risky thing to do though. It's up to you.

[Asker]

Thanks

You've made some great points fir me to think about.. I never thought about how it could also be a green flag. He's always said he doesn't sleep around. And I've always believed it. I dint know any of the girls on his FB. But by his posts it seems like he's know them for years.

[Effably]

Some guys are like that. It of course says something about the person and who they are. Whether that something is good or bad is up to you.

I personally find these guys are a little awkward or hostile most of the time. But could also just be that they're ticking all the right boxes for women? Maybe.

[Asker]

Thanks for your comment 🙂 When you say it's says something about them as a person and who they are, what do you mean? in what way?

[Effably]

Simply that for one reason or another they either favor female friends or enjoy greater success befriending them than they do male ones. That's all.

Befriending guys is quite easy. And so there is either something missing socially, the awkward part, or there is a matter of preference.

Of course it could also just be that he's attractive in a girls want to be around him kind of way while lacking the same allure for guys.

[Asker]

Thank you. I appreciate you comment

[TacosRAwesome]

Depends on the reason. And if he's attracted to them. By attracted to them I don't mean admits that they're good looking but has actively made moves on them.

[Asker]

I'm not sure if he's attracted to them or made a move in them. He's quite a closed book sort of person. So to be honest, I'm not sure if he's dated or hooked up with any of them.

[Guy13]

If a male has mostly female friends then yes. This is a 🚩 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩. There’s no emotional room left for girlfriend which means dissatisfied woman.

[Kaneki05]

What could be a red flag about a guy getting along with women more?

[Asker]

That's why I'm asking because I don't know

[Kaneki05]

There isn't one.

[Asker]

OK, thank you

[es20490446e]

I have many females as friends, and that is because they like me as a person.

So a good thing.

[LiamJHayden]

Most of my closest friends, including my best friend, are female. We have known each other since elementary of earlier.

[YourToy69]

Yep for sure. You are just another one

[In_Trance]

Yes it is

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nope.