Why do girls think that if a guy isn't unconditionally nice then he was never truly nice to begin with?

[Deserter]

[slatyb]

What do you mean by "unconditionally nice"? If someone is not nice to people performing a service, like waitstaff in a restaurant, then they are not a nice person.

[Deserter]

What if waitstaff is rude?

[slatyb]

You stay chill and don't make a scene because it will upset the other diners. You may be quietly insistent.

[Anonymous]

The problem is, guys will almost always say what they think the woman wants to hear. Therefore, it is really difficult to believe a word they say.

[Juxtapose]

Really? I've had women do the same thing to me. It's made me think you women have trouble being direct and honest.

[Blackcupcake]

that's bullshit