How do you know if a woman hates you?

[Anonymous]

How do you know if a woman hates you or just isn’t interested? Do never answering your messages mean she hates you?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Depends why... I mean, could be either or... She could just not be interested, or depending on your history and what may have transpired, she might hate you...

Not enough details to really answer this, but then you should know the answer.. If you did nothing wrong at all, then might be not interested, but you know if you did something or not to make her hate you..

[Asker]

Hello. 8 years ago I asked a co worker out on a date. I was nervous to ask due to she is probably 5-8 years older (23me her 30’s). She said she was busy but maybe another time. I was fine with it. 2 hrs later I was going home and saw her at the traffic light. I waved to her but I guess she didn’t see me. I go to work 2 days later and find out she reported me for “ following” which I didn’t and was fine with her denial.

[Asker]

It has devastated me that things turned out this way. I felt a strong connection with her. 2 this day I have tried to show her how I am by sending her nice emails from time to time and checking in on how she is. Even though we haven’t seen each other in 8 years. She does not answer any of my messages and treats me like I don’t exist. I have really tried to move on but can’t due to there is no closure on this. I regret ever asking her to dinner! It ruined everything! What can I do to fix it? Thanks

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Honestly, just let her be.. She not only turned you down for a date, she reported you to your job..
8 years later and you're still messaging her with no response.. She's obviously not interested.. While you may feel a connection, she doesn't appear to

[SomewhereElse]

never answering messages just means she wants to be left alone. Unless you did something quite bad to her, it's very unlikely she hates you. She probably just doesn't want to interact with you in any way. Just leave her alone, she's not interested.

[DermalPunch]

No. It means she doesn't want to interact with you. I mean if you are just mildly acquainted with her.

If this is a serious relationship then you messed up.

[Subarugirl]

It means that she doesn't want to talk to you and if you have any once of respect of integrity you will respect that and leave her alone.

[Asker]

Not to be rude, but you all never seem to even consider the feelings of the guy making the effort to try and make things right.

[Subarugirl]

It doesn’t matter what you’re trying to do, if she isn’t responding it means she doesn’t want to talk to you. You should be man enough to respect her decision

[Asker]

Got it! Thanks Subaru!

[Subarugirl]

Happy to help

[laraWM]

I think it doesn't mean she hates you but definitely she's not interested. And yes if you still send messages then she'll end up hating you

[JosyJosy]

I'll cut contact everywhere and live like you never even existed.

[rachel776]

it takes a lot for us to hate someone

[jr495htb]

Her cunt bleeds on you