Do girls find attractive when a guy doesn't complain? And if something bothers you, what's the right way to complain without losing attraction?

[Nickchr]

I have noticed in a relationship that the less i complained and acted like i don't care about things she was doing the more obsessed and sweeter she was with me.

I've also tried the opposite with another girl by saying exactly what bothers me every time and i noticed exactly the opposite reaction, then when i changed my behavior and started to act careless, she started to get obsessed...

So i'd like to know what's the way girls think on this and how you view the man in a relationship? what's the most attracted behavior of a man towards you?

[Guy13]

You’re right to some degree. Women tend to crave attention. And if you are the only one giving it and stop THEN they will start pursuing you. Rarely does it go past the attention-seeking stage. This is the best sign of someone who is not serious about you or relationship. They should always be kept in friendzone. They will drop you in a second for the next “better looking” guy that shows them attention. Good luck 👍

[LazerBean]

I think you probably just must be a complainer. I rarely noticed when anyone complains, but when I do notice it's because that's all they do. And I've checked to make sure it's not just me, all the people who I avoid because they are complainers are also avoided by most other people for the exact same reason.

[dustybiker]

Nobody likes anyone who complains. Complaining is usually frustration from not being heard.

Solution. Find a better way to communicate. Be honest.

Say things like “Can we have an honest conversation without judgement?” Then stick to that.

[Anonymous]

It all depends on her

[In_Trance]

All about balance