Girls, do you ignore guys you find attractive?

[Anonymous]

Do girls tend to ignore guys they find attractive? Like not really look at them or talk to them say at like college or the mall or a place like that?

[ElissaDido]

Yes. There was this super Handsome Tunisian/Moroccan tanned green eyed Med Student in my university who literally all the girls flirted with him non stop, he was always around tons of girls, and one day he sat next to me and my bestfriend but we ignored him (although from his body language it was obvious that he was expecting us to approach him) we didn't want to feed his vanity.

[Errhh]

I did that! I do that! D:
It's so intimidating when you find someone attractive and they are talking to you. I'm not sure if that ever changes with age! This still happens to be, though I think I pretty much control turning into a tomato though... I think :/

[XRabbitHeartX]

Ignore completely? No definitely not. I might get shy and look away quickly but I'll try to give a smile and look friendly.

[aWes0MeNeSs]

It depends on the girl, but yes, sometimes. It's a way of "playing cool" I guess, and sometimes they will try to catch a quick glimpse of you without getting caught.

[phil2]

I did this in high school because I didn't want them to know that I liked them, because I was afraid that they might think that I was desperate for attention and I was also afraid that they might not like me.
I once in 7th grade, had a short unattractive guy like me. He made it very obvious which made me feel really uncomfortable around him.
I didn't want the same affect happening with my crushes.
I am so glad that that stage in my life is over with and I am now with someone.
Yayyyy

[mooky06]

I see no point in talking with them. I'm not going to stop and start a conversation with one while I'm running shopping errands or getting somewhere. It's not ignoring them, it's just me too busy. If I was single, and in a social setting sure why not, but I'm not interested.

[whyisitso]

I usually avoid the guys I like until they start coming to me which makes me more comfortable and then I can show them more interest. If the person just looks very attractive but othervise isn't that special I might look at him more but not show any other interest.

[ArianInsane]

sometimes, but it depends what kind of ignoration. I really don´t know how to explain it, but sometimes girls like to play it hard. An example is when a girl makes eye contact, smiles , and then ignores the guy by turning around or pretending he`s not there, but she constantly returns to the eye contact part. This is a "I find you attractive and I´m playing hard on you" ignoration. But if the girl kinda creeps out when you are with her, if she changes places or goes away the moment you are near her, or if she is rude to you, she definitely doesn´t like you.
BUUUUT there´s an other option, if she is kinda shy, she in not outgoing, and boys are really a big issue for her but she feels insecure, maybe she´ll think that you will never be attracted to her so she tries to protect herself from you by ignoring or being rude so she would not get hurt or heartbroken, but she does really like you.

[pinkbubble]

Yeah cuz usually attractive guys think that all girls look at them. So i personally dont give him that self esteem push up lol and anyway im not allowed to have flirty eye contact with any guy cuz i have a man ♡

[Anonymous]

I won't flat out ignore a guy if he approaches me. I love speaking to people, but I get VERY shy when I see an attractive guy. So I like to do the "secret stare". You are so attractive that I can't NOT look at you, but I will die before you know. I'll make it look like I'm busy, but my attention is pretty much taken by you. If I know it's safe and I'll be accepted I'll speak with you, but if your extremely cute, I'll be scared you will ignore or reject me.

[ponybabies]

I don't ignore completely like in high school, I liked this guy and at lunch I knew he was looking at me and that's what i wanted, but when it came to class we sat in groups and he was in my group and that's when I'd talk to him and chuckle at his stupid jokes (:

[chickenflipper]

As someone with social anxiety, I try to stay far away but maybe watch them from a distance. Lol
If they talk to me then I'd try to talk but end up making a fool of myself and being really awkward and the conversation dies. Then I avoid them like the plague to avoid looking creepy and clingy.

[hopefulandwaiting]

I typically do mostly because I think they...

a.) Know they are attractive and might be prideful, cocky, or think they are the shiz.
b.) Are already taken
c.) Are out of my league

#mymindruinsmostchances

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. I may give the illusion that I'm ignoring them, if I'm nervous. However, I'm a chatterbox. It has happened a few times though.

In reality, if I find someone really attractive, I probably spend way more time looking at them and thinking about them than they realize. So I'm not really ignoring them at all.

[Anonymous]

I do. Im generally easygoing with people, but there's this one guy I actually have feelings for and he flirted with me and I turned his advances down out of sheer panic. Im nowhere near as comfortable around him. Stupid me, by now I think he gave up...

[Anonymous]

Ignore completely, no. I might talk to people around him / in his vicinity except for him while sneaking glances at him. But if I'm ignoring him or avoiding him completely it's because I don't want anything to happen between us or I'm genuinely not interested.

[Anonymous]

That's actually my problem, I send out totally opposite signals. It can be a room full of guys and the only guy I'm not talking to is the guy I'm interested in and I don't even look at him, only when I know he can't see me... It's awful.. how would he know that Im interested in him, but I just find it so uncomfortable. Working on it thoughxD

[carinerose]

True true true. So freaking true for me.
I don't know if it's the same for every girl, but I'm shy as hell and that's what I do when I meet or see a guy I find attractive.
If you wanted an explanatiin for that behaviour, I don't have one. The best I can say is that I ignore him to see if he's going to be interested (guys always like the chase right?) and also partially because handsome guys know they are handsome and I just don't want to give them the satisfaction.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Yes. All the time. I probably try to avoid them more than others. I blush and get stuttery around attractive men, and I don't want them seeing me like that, even if I know they like me back. It makes it worse.

[GigiTheGuilbert]

I don't, I ignore guys I'm mad at or have no interest in whatsoever. if a girl likes you, I'd think she'd state, maybe be brave and talk to you, maybe be shy and try not to let you know that she likes you.

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

Sometimes I do. It depends on what kind of person they are. Like if they aren't down to earth or solely interested in actually getting to know a person outside of sex on the brain than I'll ignore the shit out of them.

[Tescosfinestmilk]

Sometimes - if he's hanging with friends I don't. I'd would be awkward if he og his caught me creepin' hahaha. If he was alone, I'd say hello or something if I passed him in a supermarket or something like that.

[StewieRH]

We usually look at guys we find attractive even if we're shy, but if we're shy we will probably not go and talk to you unless you speak to us first.

[Apriscila]

That's kind of funny. I feel that guys in college or at the mall like to stare and check out but don't have the balls to come up and say something. Ever.

[underatedLG5]

it depends... sometimes i'll try to get his attension, not exactly ignoring him, by being the life of the party and the center of attension, trying to get him to notice me first

[MJas16]

They are intimidating. I guess it depends on the girl. Most shy girls will usually make eye contact and avoid him for dear life hahaha. Im one of them. They usually have to chase me for me to know they like me or are interested or else im not sure.

[RJGraveyTrain]

What? No. That seems totally counter productive. If I ignore someone it's because I don't want to talk to them or I don't particularly feel fond of the.

[AnonStar]

Sometimes i do if i think his personality sucks and i wouldn't go out with him. If he's attractive both physically and personally i would show him interest and 'mark my territory' 😎

[WhatTheHellAmy]

yeah XD I stare at them for a while and then watch somewhere else to see if they'll watch me back XD some do, some don't LOL

[TheDevilInside]

To me, they are like the sun. You can't stare directly at them. You can only enjoy the rays that come out of them. Lol

[Anonymous]

When I really, really, like I mean REALLY like a guy, I'll try to stay as far away from them as I can while still being able to see them. I'll stare at them from far away and not to be creepy but its true. When they come near me I kinda run away. (Not literally.)

[PinkBunnyBunBun]

Only if I think they're a player because it drives them insane, otherwise I'd unconsciously gravitate towards them by accident all the time.