The Female Friend?

[Anonymous]

I've been close friends with this single girl who's also a coworker. We've known each other for many years. She's very good to me and my family. She buys things for my wife and kids. I like her a lot and I feel like she likes me too, which is creating problems for me emotionally.

The other day we were at work and she gave me keys to her house and car in case she "goes somewhere" and needs someone to check on her place. But I know she isn't travelling anywhere. She told me that her things are "my things" and I can drop by her place whenever I want.

I told my wife about the keys. My wife is super angry and wants me to dump my friend. I'm confused. Is this friend more than a friend?

[Guy13]

Work wife is what it is called and dangerous to both employment and home life. What are you planning to do ⁉️

[Asker]

I guess im going to dump her... I dont forsee this going well. I mean, i really like her but im not going to leave behind my wife and kids for her. What does she want from me?

[Guy13]

Having this experienced not married to give you a blow job up against the lobby desk where a clearly function recording camera system and with door unlocked.

[Asker]

she's not a slutty girl- she has no boyfriend for the last 7 years. So her actions feel bold yet bizarre to me. For what its worth, i had a huge crush on her long ago before i was married. You think she's trying to play on that?

[Guy13]

Power play to know she can as well as you know she can…. No different than dog lifting his leg and peeling on a “tree”. Most people would not be able to put the breaks on at this point…

[Asker]

Scary part is, I want to smash her. she's not only cute, but she goes the extra mile for me in ways my own wife wouldn't, so i have a very strong emotional connection to hear. But i can't bring myself to do it..

[Guy13]

I have to say that the majority of women in this situation want to dominate the guy and let you know they did…see you “everyday” for 3 years now and know you want her to do that again…with no intention of it happening a second time.

[Anonymous]

You need to return her keys and start creating boundaries between yourself and this co worker. She is offering her body to you, and that is why your wife is so mad.

[Asker]

I have a hard time interpreting friendly gestures from romantic intent. She doesn't immeditaley strike me as wanting to ride dick, she doesn't seem like that kinda person