Why do some older women get mad when their man leaves them for a younger woman? Why do they get mad at the girl?

[Anonymous]

Especially when they break up and she doesn’t think he’s seeing anyone else and still sleeping with her exclusively. Why do they always assume the man is going for a younger women just to manipulate her?

[Paulalove98]

Insecurities I suppose. Possibly even jealousy, some older women can have baggage, maybe partied hard in their younger years and a guy would prefer someone a little younger who doesn’t have all that. Im not into men that much older than me but that’s what I think.

[misogynistic_pig]

Because they are envious that men prefer more beautiful and younger women, it has become commonplace to shame men for pursuing young women, however, we can see from a male biological perspective that it is totally natural, and makes sense. from an evolutionary perspective as young women are more fertile, have a lower rate of sexually transmitted diseases and are less likely to have children from previous men, which a man might have to care for in the event of marriage.

[Anonymous]

Because they feel like they're being treated like a piece of garbage that's being tossed aside for the younger model. Additionally, it makes them feel like if he ever really cared much about her beyond her to begin with

[Apple1996]

No idea. If a man ever left me for younger I'd probably be thankful to get out of that relationship cuz it shows that he isn't mature since he is able to relate to a much younger woman. It would only be a postive thing for the older woman

[Paulalove98]

As we are both in our 20s and still young to most men but still I’d say I agree with this cause if a guy is willing to leave one day over age he will also too leave that girl too once she grows old. It’s saving a bigger heartache. My dad met my mom when she was 38 and she had me at 39 but he loves her still today at 63 regardless. This comes from a him problem then if he leaves the woman.

[Apple1996]

@Paulalove98 yeah this type of guy that would leave over something so ridiculous isn't worth wasting my time on. Best to find a guy who loves you for you and not your age/looks.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Jealousy, they know they hit the 304 club

[Asker]

Well I don’t get it. She’s being possessive and while he was courting me she was still sleeping with him (because I wouldn’t give it up so soon) and she’s acting like she’s the main girl. Like no he doesn’t respect you.

[panamared1]

Get mad at the guy