Girls, if you had a 17 year age gap with a young man you were interested in would you pursue it short term, long term or not pursue it at all?

[Anonymous]

[Bethany22]

Depending on my age, I would just pursue it short term regardlessly. It would depend on if I had already had marriage and divorce, and at that point I could afford to waste time having fun like that

[Asker]

but what if this man was healthy, looked young for his age, possessed qualities you never seen before. Wouldn't you take him more seriously?

[Bethany22]

Yes I would

[rachel776]

i would pursue it and see if i wanted it to go longer

[Anonymous]

A ‘man’ 17 years younger than me would be 6 years old. Absolutely not lmfao.

[Asker]

Not younger, older then you. I don’t know your age but let’s say you’re 20 and he’s 37.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh then no, that’s too old for me. 5 years older than me is the oldest I’d date.

[Asker]

What if he looks young for his age, healthy, athletic, vibrant, caring, compassionate, interesting/unique? Or is it too far of an age gap to consider because if he's 50 one day, you'll be 33, when he's 60 you'll be 43. Not sure if that matters? Personally, I'm in my 30s but I prefer her being a few years younger then me maybe at most 10 years. I think 17 years is a fairly large age gap because its almost 20 years and its a generational thing to. But at the same time I don't know, I've dated girls and as a guy we live in odd times. I've dealt with rude girls, superficial girls, girls who are immature/ghosted. It's also my decision as well. Would I want to pursue someone younger like that because if she can't get on the same wave length intellectually, convos will be off. But it all depends, I do say, never say never.

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly his looks wouldn’t appeal to me when there’s that much of an age gap. I would end up viewing him more as a father figure than anything else. That’s too big of one for me personally. I’d like to date someone that’s still in their 20’s like me 😅

[Asker]

In other words if a male with that age gap tried approaching you and couldn't take the hint, you might deliver a swift kick in the balls so you get your "point" across.

[Opinion Owner]

No, I don’t resort to violence. I’d simply walk away from him.

[Asker]

what if he stands in front of you and says please give me a chance sweetheart lol

[Opinion Owner]

I move around him and tell him that I’m not interested and to kindly move out of my way.

[Asker]

he grabs you :-o

[Opinion Owner]

Why are you so eager for me to kick some guy in the balls 🤔

[Asker]

i thought women and girls found it funny

[Asker]

you dont find it funny?

[Opinion Owner]

No I don’t

[Asker]

what if a guy paid you to kick him lol

[Asker]

would you do it and you reallllly needed the money

[Opinion Owner]

No. Do you have a kink for this or something?

[Asker]

Yep, you caught me I kinda do. By saying this I probably ruined your day :-|

[EmmaMary]

It would be a total none starter.