Is it possible a girl could ignore a guy she actually likes?

[Anonymous]

This girl acts like she likes me, but seems to ignore me at times.

[FilmGuy93]

It's extremely possible. Especially if the woman thinks you're out of her league. Just be gentle, express your interest in her in a subtle way and express interest in spending more time with her.

If she likes you, she'll probably get the message. But if she's insecure, it might not matter any way.

[Xoxocutekitty]

It is possible, but usually a single text message saying ' I like you romantically, can I take you on a date so we can get to know each other better?' Will indicate whether or not she likes you.

If she takes forever to responds (more than a day) she's not interested or you're bottom of the list. If she responds 'yes sure.' Then it's up to you to plan the date.

Sending useless messages might warrant a lack of response.

[Kebler]

Yes and no, sometimes i'd avoid someone so i don't get my heart broken in the end, but other times i just avoid or ignore because i simply do not like you, a way you can tell she ignores you because she doesn't like you is when you two just so happen to cross paths, and she seems like she doesn't want to talk to you at all and she seems not interested

[Asker]

But she also has teased me the past as a joke. Plus she always tries to become involved in group conversation I'm in. Then she ends up angling her feet towards me, which I know feet are a subconscious message where there feet point towards what they are interested in

[Kebler]

she definitely likes u...

[Asker]

I wouldn't say she ignores me all the time. But she has her moments, but when the 2 of us are alone she always has to mumble a comment about something for example say said " hmmm I could really be in bed right now". That is definitely something to encourage me to start talking to her

[BullShark]

Most girls who like you may purposely ignore you to see if you're interested enough to pursue them back.

But if that's all she does and is usually never her usual self around you, and ignores you way more than actually making an effort to be close to you, then she probably doesn't like you at all and just wants you to go away.

[Summeroflove]

It’s possible yes. But she’s probably just not interested dude. Either way. If she is then she’s playing games. It’s also rude.


If you want her. Ask her out. If she says no. Cut your losses and move on. If she gives you another answer. The ball is in her court and if she likes you. She will reach out.

[Kiran_Yagami]

No, it's not even remotely possible. Women make up their minds about you, as in whether or not they'd like to fuck you, within the first 15 minutes of meeting you. Often the first 5. If she wanted to, she'd show it. She don't, so she won't. Move on.

[curiousaboutthis]

NOT TRUE, THAT IS FRIGGING SEXIST!

[Kiran_Yagami]

@curiousaboutthis It's just as sexist as saying boys have penises and girls have vaginas.

[curiousaboutthis]

DUDE.

[curiousaboutthis]

WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!!!

[hoetae887_]

Definitely, I do it all the time. Usually I like the guy so much that I keep it a secret and dont want him to know because I dont want anyone, including him, to find out, or I dont want to be rejected. I just like to admire from afar. Its easier that way

[michael00007]

Followed you.

[curiousaboutthis]

EXACTLY

[7Phoenix7]

Yes it's possible. She might like you a lot but may not want you to know how much, so she ignores you sometimes.

[Asker]

She has been only talking to me when we're alone. She has initiated conversation in the sense, but is very quiet towards me when we're in group situations. But she'll stand next to me and even angle her her feet to be pointing towards me

[7Phoenix7]

she's probably attracted to you but is shy or introverted. Introverts are quiet in group settings but will initiate convo when it's one on one. You should talk to her more, if you like her.

[jennifer_bloom]

You don’t measure a girls willingness to date you by the amount of talking she does, you measure it by how much respect she shows you.

[sunny02]

Yes, sometimes the past situations can cause hesitation about dating and they worry that they will be hurt again

[Kathyxbts]

Absolutely.

some girls don’t like giving the off the vibe that they like you. It’s just how they are sometimes. They want you to make the first move

[Asker]

It's just weird cause she'll talk to me when the 2 of us are alone. But in group setting she doesn't talk to me much, however she'll stand next to me and angle herself towards me when talking to someone else

[Kathyxbts]

She definitely likes you. But in a group setting she must not feel as comfortable. I feel like she is levitating towards you tho with her body language. Do you talk to her in the group setting?

[Asker]

I try to, but sometimes she doesn't say much. But if we're alone she'll say something like " hmmmm I could really be in bed right now". She has even stood with her dominant foot place forward pointing towards me. Then she started swaying her back forth on her knee towards me if that makes sense. In a group setting that is.

[Kathyxbts]

Tbh I’m similar to her. When I like a guy I only talk to them when I’m with them alone.
I HATE group settings. You are not able to feel a connection as much with people surrounding you

[Asker]

What about not replying to some messages?

[Crowferret]

Summer women are different, she could be shy or don't want to make it seem to obvious to avoid embarrassment.

[curiousaboutthis]

Yes. Sometimes we avoid guys we like because we are afraid of looking stupid or weird.

[Anonymous]

Of course it's possible. That's why you should never give a shit what they do or say, if you like her, chat her up and ask her out. If she's not interested, move on.

[WhitneySnow]

Sure. Maybe she’s playing hot and cold. Or maybe she’s just moody.

[sofia_12]

as a girl i would say yes. I do ignore my crush to see if he approaches me first. Or i might want to give myself some time to understand if i really like him. if u think a girl likes u u should approach her to change her mind.

[Sarahh1234]

Yes she can ignore you because she might be just shy to come and talk to you if you like her back go start a conversation with her

[robocop666]

some people are rude to people they like, its not unusual

[Asker]

Why are they like that

[robocop666]

everyone does something when their around someone they like

[Asker]

Then she only has a full on conversation when the 2 of us are alone. Otherwise she will hang around near me in group settings but not talk to me

[robocop666]

ok maybe not this sounds weird. gimme more info. I am good at body language so I can try to help.

[Asker]

She had angled her body towards me in group conversation eventhough she is talking to someone else. She has stood with her dominant foot placed forward pointing towards myself in group conversations. Then she proceeded to sway back and forth on her knee when her dominant foot is placed forward

[robocop666]

this says interest but you say she is rude to you when alone? is this true? try talking to her more alone

[Anonymous]

Yes, I do that automatically and I'm not sure why.

[Asker]

Would that include messages.

[Opinion Owner]

I mean it depends. If you have never met this person before in real life and she's ignoring you she probably does not like you. I you've met before in real life and she avoids your texts she could like you but I usually don't avoid texts. I mean it's not stressful in the same way because it's not face to face. But every girl is different! This is just me personally.
I hope the girls you like likes you back. :))

[Asker]

I do know this girl and met her face to face. It's hard to explain, she just seems to treat me differently as oppose to other guys. Like she talks to them so easily but with me it's different. Almost like she doesn't like me. But at the same time she'll start small talk with me when when she and I are alone together. Next thing we're having full conversation

[Opinion Owner]

I think she might like you, I don't know the situation is kind of confusing. She either really don't like you or she really likes you. I say you ask her out, give it a shot. Women usually don't make the first move because women don't chase, it's not in their nature. You should ask if she likes you, and if she doesn't, there's someone else out there for you!

[Anonymous]

I think it's not only Possible, But most likely.

[Nikki1989]

Sometimes there is no other choice.

[Asker]

Why is that?

[ItsLily]

I ignore a guy that I like all the time

[Asker]

Why is that?

[ItsLily]

Because I don't like that I like him

[Asker]

Why don't you like the fact you like him

[ItsLily]

Well he's not the kind of guy that I usually have a crush on. Plus I don't want him to know

[goebenbreslau]

everything is possible in life.

[Asker]

But can women tend to do that

[Hinaaaaa]

Yeah 😅 hmm we do that when we know that we can't get this person... so we start to distant ourselves... it's just my point of view though...

[Asker]

@Hinaaaaa in what terms do you mean they know they can't get this person

[Hinaaaaa]

Maybe they are too good for them... or they have low self esteem that they don't think of themselves more worth it... or religious beliefs... someone out of your religion... the best way to know it is to ask them... don't make assumptions...

[Slingblade1126]

@Hinaaaaa there is a lot of truth to what you're saying. My wife, when we first met, was very standoffish and distant with me. I was very attracted to her but figured she just wanted to keep things professional and she had no interest. Come to find out later, she assumed I had a girlfriend.

[Hinaaaaa]

@Slingblade1126 u did a good thing asking her... some people don't show this much courage...& Start making assumptions in their head

[KrakenAttackin]

Absolutely, women are stupid this way.

[Rockerroy]

Lmao.