Friend zone Or boy friend zone?

[dksht]

There is this girl that is exactly like me, kind of my type too, one first encounter we had chated from 12 in night to 4 in morning and yesterday the same happened, only I was flirting kind of in between, and then she had post a pic of hers on insta and one in story too and asked me which one I liked better, I said the one in the story and i saw just 2 minutes after that she had made a post of that too. Don't know if that means something or not? If yes, then what? Am I in friendzone Or does she like me? While we were talking 2 months back I had pushed her to make a post and she got good clout on that, can that be the reason for her asking me? Am I reading too much into this?

[melanieeeB]

So have you made a move? You're talking to her for months already

Guys only put themselves into "friendzones" by not expressing how they feel and expecting us to just fall for them

[dksht]

No I tried getting her to send voice notes but she didn't agree saying she's too introverted for that and that she would prefer texting. Same reason I don't have her number yet. Although we do talk for nights straight when we both can find time.

[melanieeeB]

Okay but just asking for voice texts doesn't equal making a move. Have you told her that you would like to meet her and you see her more as a friend?

[dksht]

No I haven't, I have said that i woulld definitely like to meet her in near future, thing is we both live states apart, I live in South East part of the country and she in North West. So meeting is kind of not in books as of now. But soon when I get a good job i plan to relocate their to meet her. She knows this.

[melanieeeB]

Okay well first that does sound better!

But then are you sure she is who she claims that she is... asking this cause she is living somewhere else, you haven't seen her in person yet and for your own safety with strangers from the internet... if she doesn't wanna send voice texts, have at least facetimed with her?

[dksht]

I agree that she might not be if she were a stranger, but she has lived and attended college where I live now, plus she and I both are from defence background and on to top that she is a mutual friend. She says she is just shy and introverted and so doesn't like calling of any sort. Her account is legit though.

[Anonymous]

There is no such thing as a "friendzone."

[Guy13]

ASk her out... how much more does she have to do of what you suggest. Lead !!