Women, how would you criticize your younger selves and other women?

[Anonymous]

If you had to reflect on your own actions, or actions of other women... what constructive criticism would you share?

This can relate to multiple different aspects... career choices, lifestyle choices, attitudes in life, dating, sexuality etc.

A bonus would be... if you have mistreated men in the past or know common things some women do that are abusive towards men - how would you criticize these actions?

[Apple1996]

I have no regrets about my younger self. I got married and had kids young so it probably wasn't as bad as some women that spend those years fucking around in college

[jennifer_bloom]

I would tell my 20 year old self not to chase after guys that reject me, not to chase after friends that don’t like me and not to assume others are smarter than me.