What did this girl mean to say?

[Anonymous]

There is a girl who i have seen a lot, but we aren't even friends.

I’m a bit introverted and she started asking me why I’m so shy. I said “i dont know”. She then asked “have you never talked to girls? Dont you have a girlfriend?” and i said that i dont.

she then said to me “i can be a good teacher”. After that i didn't really say anything because i had no idea what she meant by that.

[ManOnFire]

No.1, it was pretty rude of her to ask you "have you never talked to girls?"

2. Her asking you if you have a girlfriend is her way of finding out if she has a chance with you.

3. Her saying she can be a good teacher is her flirting with you. I won't lie, she plays around pretty confidently and courageously like a man.

Take her up on it and see where it goes.

[Asker]

I didn't find it rude tbh. She asked me in a serious tone rather than a mocking one.

Dont some girls ask if you have a girlfriend for no reason just because they are curious? I don't know but the thing is i dont even know her. Just a familiar face.

[ManOnFire]

Yeah it's still rude because she's asking you seriously, as if you're a stupid animal who doesn't know how to speak. Most women don't ask me or other guys outright if I have a girlfriend. If they want to know they will usually wait and see if you say things about your personal life without them asking. If they do ask, it's often when they've gotten close enough to you that they feel comfortable asking.

[Asker]

Regarding the last sentence, thats what confuses me. I can understand if someone who you are close to asks out of curiosity. But the thing is that this girl doesn’t even know. We are just a familiar face and our conversation till now has been 10 sentences at most.

[ManOnFire]

Like I said, she is courageous and confident in her flirting skills like a guy. That's the kind of thing a guy will do within the first 10 minutes of meeting. Says to me she must be into you to ask you that off the bat.

[Asker]

What are the chances she is just being friendly?

Another thing happened today, we were talking normally and she grabbed my arm and pulled me towards her. She was facing me while i was standing sideways and our waists were very close. Then she put her hand on my belly. I got nervous and leaned. She noticed that and put her hand again on my belly and just looked at me.

[ManOnFire]

Oh she is definitely trying to make it very clear that she is into you. Wow, she is a confident tiger, I like that.

[Asker]

So she is interested? It’s hard to believe for me tbh

[ManOnFire]

Well. She might. It's still important to take things slow and find out what she's really about first. You want to find out if she came out of a relationship or not.

Take my advice: Someone Liking You Isn’t Always A Good Thing ↗